My boyfriend says he has a lower sex drive.

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  1. Kleine Maus

    Kleine Maus New Member

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    Want to keep this short. Have been with bf a year, get along great, just moved to a new city together. He has never been very horny, and now that we live together it is more evident. I try to think of ways to spark his interest, but it usually doesn't work. We do it couple of times a week. He says he just doesn't think it's a big deal. Not my first long relationship, and it was completely the opposite with my other boyfriends. No, I am not fat, no I am not ugly. And I do not think he is cheating, either.
    Ideas??? :confused:
     
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    energie I like to place an order.. the name? Situation the

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    tell him to go get his test checked
     
  3. Kleine Maus

    Kleine Maus New Member

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    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    testosterone she means!
     
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    i dunno, when i spent a lot of time with my gf and have consistant sex, i dont 'want' sex as much. BUT on the other hand, if i dont get sexual attention for days, its a whole other story.

    i think it has to do with less testosterone being produced when you know you have a stable constant relationship.
     
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    What are some ways you have tried to spark his interest?
     
  7. Kleine Maus

    Kleine Maus New Member

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    Sexy texts, body language, blunt comments, suggested we watch porn together... ?
     
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    Kleine Maus New Member

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    Cute underwear ;-)
     
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    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    I can go twice a day everyday for weeks on end. But I prefer not to. 4 times a week works well. Dunno, just need a little break every now and again
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Weird. This problem has become evident lately in here.

    Look, you knew from the beginning his sex drive was low. It bothers you more now of course because you are living together but a few times a week is really not bad. It'd be one thing if you were starting to have less sex, but if he's stayed the same since you've been dating it's not the kind of thing lingerie is going to change.

    These are the kinds of things that never get talked about, but if eventually marriage is in your plans you really can't look past how sexually satisfied you are.

    He could have his levels checked but even if they come back low I don't see how that will help you. How does he eat? Does he work out or exercise regularly?
     

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