Ok...Heres the story. I met this guy about 14 or 15 months ago and when we met he told me he moved here from Cali and we became cool. We used to hang out and stuff and I guess there is this girl in Cali and they have been together for 5 years but when i first met him he told me about her but he said that she was dating someone so i figured they were not together or whatever but then time progresses and i guess they are "together" and she stopped dating that guy. But then we have grown strong feelings fo reach other. We pratically are bf/gf. We also have been through a lot with each other. The only problem is that he has not told this girl in Cali about me. I think he is scared of the outcome and hurting her and all that. Another thing is that he is 28 and im 20 so there is a big age difference there. We tell each other we love each other and he even makes comments about moving in together and having kids and everything. I guess im just really confused cuz if he says he loves me then why wont he just tell the girl in Cali. He calls me his girlfriend and everything but i just hate the fact that their is "another girl." They lived together and i guess things were not working out so he moved to Texas just for the hell of it and has lived here for about 2 years already so what the hell is he waiting for???? Can anyone give me any advice or has anyone else been in a situation similar to this??