My bf and I have been together just over a year. He was a virgin before me, and I have to say I really loved "teaching him" But now I feel that I have created a monster so to speak because he wants it more than I can give. We have a semi-distance relationship so we when we get to see each other I feel like we are trying have as much sex as possible while we are together, and the obligation of it kind of turns me off. I love him very much, and I can tell he is hurt when I say I'm not in the mood. I feel bad too because at the beginning of the relationship I was pursuing the sex very often, so my questions are; How much sex is normal in a 4 day visit? Is it me? Is my sex drive just diminishing? What should I do about it? CLIFFS: distance relationship. love boyfriend. he wants sex more often than i do, but we dont see each other that often so I feel pressure to do it as much as possible, which kills my sex drive. HELP!