so I went to a gay bathhouse which is just something that i wanted to do for the experience. it had a bar, pool table, and the rest was very dark with hallways where guys would rub my chest as they walked by to show interest. they had many glory holes and a big giant orgy room with videos playing. it kind of felt like a dungeon. there was very little talking going on. most everyone there seemed a bit uptight. we all walked around in circles most of the night, looking for an opportunity to watch someone get blown or fucked. there was a lot going on in the orgy room but mainly old guys going bareback. that freaked me out a bit. there was another guy there, a tall skinny college kid who was probably straight like me, just sitting there watching the videos. nobody came up to him. the ones who were interested in me were the old guys, one of them stood right next to me rubbing his junk and another laid on his back next to me with his legs up. and then there was this masculine guy with army shorts on. kinda looked like tomash. problem was he was looking for reciprocation. he was eyeing me all night but i was too chicken. i maybe would have done a lot with the straight guy but he was fully clothed while most people were either totally naked or shirtless. i ended up going into a glory hole and let a married looking guy, kinda looked like sam gamgee blow me, but i couldn't get hard and he gave up. after that i got dressed and left. i was surprised how awkward things were in the club. i was expecting smiles on everyone's faces, chatty people, an all out love fest but it was more like creepy predators looking for prey. i had a similar experience in a video theater at an adult video store. all the guys there looked like creeps and even in the theater which is known for heavy action nobody seemed to want to do anything with anyone.