LGBT my bathhouse experience

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  1. JordanClarkson

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    so I went to a gay bathhouse which is just something that i wanted to do for the experience. it had a bar, pool table, and the rest was very dark with hallways where guys would rub my chest as they walked by to show interest. they had many glory holes and a big giant orgy room with videos playing. it kind of felt like a dungeon.

    there was very little talking going on. most everyone there seemed a bit uptight. we all walked around in circles most of the night, looking for an opportunity to watch someone get blown or fucked. there was a lot going on in the orgy room but mainly old guys going bareback. that freaked me out a bit. there was another guy there, a tall skinny college kid who was probably straight like me, just sitting there watching the videos. nobody came up to him. the ones who were interested in me were the old guys, one of them stood right next to me rubbing his junk and another laid on his back next to me with his legs up. :ugh:

    and then there was this masculine guy with army shorts on. kinda looked like tomash. :mamoru: problem was he was looking for reciprocation. he was eyeing me all night but i was too chicken. i maybe would have done a lot with the straight guy but he was fully clothed while most people were either totally naked or shirtless.

    i ended up going into a glory hole and let a married looking guy, kinda looked like sam gamgee :o blow me, but i couldn't get hard and he gave up. after that i got dressed and left.

    i was surprised how awkward things were in the club. i was expecting smiles on everyone's faces, chatty people, an all out love fest but it was more like creepy predators looking for prey.

    i had a similar experience in a video theater at an adult video store. all the guys there looked like creeps and even in the theater which is known for heavy action nobody seemed to want to do anything with anyone.
     
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    i've been to a few

    the only people who are comfortable are the daddies, the bears, and the olides


    everyone else is a boi, or is fat usually

    everyone goes after the bois, who can choose anyone they like, the fats have to settle, the oldies get each other, and the bears and daddies get each other and the bois that are into that

    a very strange thing

    if you're a boi looking for a boi, you're pretty much out of luck
     
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    Pass on the bath house. The atmosphere sounds kind of like Phoenix (a gay bar in NYC) that I went to a couple of years ago. I didn't stay long... it was pretty creepy.
     
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    Been in that situation (but not at the bathhouse). I dont really enjoy having guys who have let themselves go with age looking at me like I am dinner. :ugh:
     
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    My straight friend and I went exploring one of the SLC cruising spots a few years back. It was even creepier seeing minivans and shit with child seats in the back while daddy was looking for teh cawk. :hsugh:
     
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    went to one...that was enough...
     
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    We have a cruising spot around here. Lady Bird Johnson Memorial something-or-other on the GW Parkway. Talk about creepy. There are some cute younger guys there, but wow... I can't imagine actually hooking up with someone that way. :ugh:
     
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    A very good friend of mine contracted HIV from a bath house in Rhode Island... BE VERY CAREFUL!!
     
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    ...uhh no. I've been to an actual bath house, but not the gay/ cruising type. But I have been to a movie theatre in Dupont Circle to see a non-pornographic gay movie, while skipping high school, only to have an attractive older guy switch seats halfway through the movie to better stroke me. I didn't stop him.
     
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    Any idea on when he might decide to come out? Also, how have you two hidden it for so long?
     
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    lol i would never go to a place like that... it's creepy and just stereotypes
     
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    :rofl::rofl:..omg that happened to me like twice...:o
     
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    i hear japanese bathhouses are pretty awesome :)

    cant wait for my trip to japan :bigthumb:
     
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    the ones in the US tend to be very trashy...

    any you find in europe or canada is much better, honestly....very clean well lit, people tend to look better

    the problem is that in the US, these bathhouses (which truly WERE bathhouses that people used for this purpose) were the only outlet for gay men int he 50s, 60s, and 70s. the original people tend to go to them still, which is why there are so bad to visit these days. but in europe, where there is less of a problem with sex, people didn't need this outlet and so it wasn't the primary place to receive it. so, what happened is that these places formed as a nice place to go and meet people and to relax

    in a nutshell, go to one anywhere but in the US and you'll have fun
     
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    that's teh same impression I got when I went to a gay bar, it wasn't that awful but I didn't completely like it...that dark room smell is :ugh: and old guys hitting on me was definitely a HUGE turn off...:ugh: really old guys...like high 50s or so :ugh:
     
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    They are; you'll luv it!
     
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    ...some reputable one's are just starting to return to the US. Or so sayeth the gossip from businessmen and investors. Supposedly, we will see an increase in real bathhouses again.
     
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    where was this XPX?
     
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    down here...in Caracas
    they other day I drove past that place and didn't feel like stopping...weird because the day I decided to go there with my friend I didn't feel this bad about it but now that I see it that way I really dislike that place :dunno:

    it was too 'Queer as folk' to me :dunno:
     
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    queens trying too hard to feel like hot shit and exclude people from their society?
     
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    I went to one gay bar in NYC that I really enjoyed. Well, it wasn't really a gay bar... just a gay night at a pretty cool bar in Queens/Astoria. Nice place, normal people, and a lot of fun. Quite the opposite of Phoenix in alphabet city.
     
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    old guys trying to act cool, very feminine guys dancing like Paris Hilton...the stereotypical stuff...
     

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