Well we were together for four years and we had been through alot of shit but we always got through it together. 7 months ago she decides that I'm not giving her enough attention. admittedly, I wasn't. She was kinda smothering me and I started hanging out too much at the pool hall with my friends. In hindsight I wish she was smothering me now. So during the 7 months she started dating a guy that I always expected her to start dating, he is one of those "extreme" snowboarders that girls just fucking love. Bastard. Anyway each week she would change her mind between the two of us and I stayed, cuz after 4 years I couldn't just give up. But today she said that I should move on and I didn't believe that is what she really wanted cuz she told friends otherwise. She has alot of committment issues so I try to be understanding of that. But she told me that she wasn't in love with me and she thinks she is falling in love with him. I never thought that would happen. This guy is no good for her. I mean he is pouring on the love now b/c he is competing for her with me but I know as soon as another hot girl comes along, he'll hurt her. I don't know what to do. I want to keep fighting but isn't it kinda pointless now? I mean I don't know. Shit I never imagine losing her would hurt this much. She wasn't the best GF but I love her more than anything.