To phrase a question: Someone shows interest in you (touching, flirting, kissing, etc.), but they have a significant other. Do you pursue or not? Does it depend on the situation? I'd like to hear what both men and women think. ________________________________ My story (for reference, if needed): I had a party at my house about two weeks ago, everything was cool - everyone had a pretty good time. One of kid's I know brought along his sister. She is a pretty cool, laid back girl - but she didn't say too much the entire evening. A group of my friend's went up to their area to see a concert/show/whatever at a bar. This kid's sister and I were talking and she seemed to come out of her shell. She was touching me, grabbing me, etc. We went back to her brother's place and had some more to drink. Again, she was very touch feely, sitting on my lap, etc. We went out to the patio and I sat down on a couch and she sat down next to me and laid her head in my lap. Then I overheard her brother say, "Kreigore's a nice guy. Her boyfriend is a total jackass. I don't mind at all." I guess he was giving me the green light, but still - I was surprised. She had a boyfriend. After this, she told me that her boyfriend was an asshole. Still, I was bit taken back. Afterwards, my friend was giving me shit for not trying to hook up with her or pursue her. My simple answer was: She has a boyfriend. We hung out this past Friday (all of us again) and she was still sending me signals - holding my hand, touching.. I reciprocated, but was mindful that she has a boyfriend. I know I would be angry and upset if it were me. This girl could definitely do the same thing to me. However, my friend said not to expect much from her and to just go for it. Basically, my morals are preventing me from asking this girl on a date. Cliffs of my story: Girl likes me, I like her, she has a boyfriend, I don't want to pursue due to moral objection.