So back story, my current gf was with a guy for 8 years, engaged for 9 months of that time. He was the reason they broke up from what I know and she was devestated. Now on to my issue, tonight I learned that one of her old bosses at work, who is married, has a thing for her. When her and her ex broke up she was a mess, and she started flirting with said boss. She told me that she had thought about sleeping with him once or twice, but decided against it for "many reasons" as she said. She told me she just needed that in as kind of a rebound where she was getting attention from a male. Then come to find out that while she was on a training trip, she stayed in his hotel room in the spare bed due to her finding something nasty in the bathroom and bedroom, according to her. Now everyone that was on that trip knows that she slept in the spare bed in that room, and she swears that nothing happened, and I am beleiving her. (all this was shortly after she and her ex broke up) Now all this was before we started dating and her and I are very serious, as in, I am currently looking at engagement rings. My issue with all this is that I feel that by what she did, it was something morally wrong. That he is married, even if it is a shitty marriage, he is still married. That she thought about sleeping with him and that she stayed in his hotel room. Am I overreacting to all this, or is this just something that she was going through at the time?