If you really liked a girl and cared for her would you let her rent a car to come see you when she doesn't work (full time student)? And let's say you work and have a car. You guys live about 1.5 hrs away from each other. Would you offer to pay for the car? Or split the cost? I rent a car about once a month to go see him. He doesn't stop me. And I've made it clear that i'm broke and that I'm not going to do it anymore. but since saying that I've done it twice and am thinking about doing it again. My friends all say that I'm stupid and that I should stop. They say he doesn't care for me. Because if he did he would come see me, because he has a car. Or at least offer to pay. He's 25 and I'm 22. I understand that he's a working man, and that he's busy. They say to stop making excuses for him.. if he really wanted to see me nothing would stop him... just like how i want to see him and nothing stops me. Am i stupid to rent cars when i'm broke?