hi all. well here is a little background story on what is going on and i would appreciate some ways to solve this constructively. my family which is my mom dad and myself have just bought a house which is about 1.2 million dollars. before we moved, my dad asked my mom how much she made etc and she told him "X" amount. after 2 weeks when we moved to the house all of a sudden my mom says that she actually makes "Y" much a month which is basically half of what she said before. now this is a shocker to my dad and we were forced to sell the house which we are in the process of doing. my dad makes enough to pay for the house payments and everything but its just that my mom would pay for everything else that involved the house but it turns out she does not make as much as she said she did. we fast forward to today and basically its a whole big fucking mess. we found a buyer for the house and we are cutting our losses by selling it cheaper and now we are looking for a house in the neighborhood of 600k. my mom is giving my dad alot of shit because first she would say shes okay with that but then when we look at houses around for that price range, shes just totally blowing it off saying its too old, the area is not good, it is too far from her work, etc. basically shes expecting to buy some sort of 800k+ style home for 600k. now let me remind you guys that she is the reason why we are in this situation because they both knew that i quit work because i was stomping down on school work because i just transferred and now ive been looking for a job to help out with payments for the past half year. my mom is totally disregarding every option that me and my dad are throwing at her just so that we can actually have a roof over our heads when this current house is sold. my dad has gotten into many arguments with her and basically they were both threatening each other with divorce so its pretty bad. i honestly think that shes trying to gain some sort of status with her side of the family buy buying this house which is why she wanted it in the first place and lied to my dad about how much she made. everything to her is material items. i am going to seriously confront her tonight but i dont want to make things worse for my dad as they already are because if i say something wrong she will probably just take it out on my dad cause he told me these things. my moms side of the family is all sketch they are so materialistic that they wanted my mom to divorce my dad before because he didnt make enough. now that we have a new house they are all like asking us if we wanna do this or that. honestly i dont like them and i never will. its sad enough that im related to people like that. so OT how do i go about handling this. i dont really know how to shorten it to cliffs but any advice would help out alot. thanks.