Soooo, I have posted on this forum here and there, but not all that much. It has been like 3-4 months since my ex girlfriend got her new boyfriend. I stopped talking to her in September and I have had maybe 2 convos with her and seen her once in public and did not initiate any of those encounters. Unfortunately, I am still in love with her. I feel like telling her is an absolutely horrible idea, and on top of everything I think she is happy with this new guy. We were together for 3 years starting senior year in high school, and I can't get over her. To be honest, I'm starting to get real pissed at myself for getting stuck on some girl who through anyone's elses eyes would be just another chick. Basically, I need some feedback. I am tired of thinking about her and missing her. Part of me wants to tell her as an attempt to get her back, but the other part of me wants to write her off, although I have been doing that and it hasn't really seemed to work. Lets hear it OT.