The guy I'm sleeping with is really good at giving me pleasure with his hands, mouth, etc. I mean, really good. And he seems to LOVE doing it over and over to the point where I drag our asses out of bed for fear of missing the whole day! The 'problem' is when we have piv sex, he comes in literally under a minute. He seems embarrassed about it. I don't know though. I want to help him last longer so when we do it I don't use my PC muscles at all if I can help it, which sucks because over the years I've gotten really good at PC muscle flexing, etc. *sigh* I don't want to just lie there like a corpse but I'm afraid any enthusiasm on my part will just make him come faster since he's gotten off just from watching me get off and lightly brushing up against me. Any ideas?