Military + Trying to Settle Down = I HATE LIFE!

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  1. Reign

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    Just wanted to bitch.

    Found this completely AMAZING girl, that happened to be a good friend of mine before we got together; is one of two girls I've ever been able to picture marrying. And this one is better than the last. The only thing I don't like about her is she smokes but I do when I drink so I can't blame her. The sex is... AMAZING. I'm her second but her ex did teach her things since they were together for a long as time. It was just so... passionate it was... I dunno. Probably the closest I've ever come to "making love" (i contribute that to us being friends first so that emotional connection had been built over time).

    Anyway, I don't live in the same area. We had toyed with long distance but outside circumstances kept it from official then I surprised her one weekend by taking leave and going to visit. Amazing weekend until the last day, asked her to be my GF, she initially said yes, but stupid me started talking about the future and my upcoming deployment January second. She hadn't really thought about that before and decided she couldn't do it. Couldn't be away from me that long and possibly hurt me (plane tickets on Southwest are cheap enough that I could afford to fly her up once or twice a month, however deployment is 6-8 months without seeing me)

    I cannot blame her for this, it's probably the smarter decision. I just fucking hate Navy life... work only, no outside life allowed. Between the 5 months I've been back and the two 1 monthers I've been in, and then the month of Rescue Swimmer training where I didn't ahve a chance to try, i've slept with 8 different girls, I'm tired of being a man whore. I want to settle down.

    /bitch
     
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  2. RougeOgre

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    Sorry man... I understand. There really are women who can live the life, you just have to look a little harder but I swear there ARE more of us out there!!!
     
  3. Toxica

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    How long are you in there for? Maybe you can try to settle once you get out?
     
  4. Reign

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    Another 2 years. Actually a little more.
     
  5. Julius

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    Having the same situation. All I can say is that it's time for us to get the fuck out.
     
  6. Cobra Commander

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    I just filled out my PTS shit and will find out if I am getting sepped early or not this coming week :big grin:
     
  7. PlutoBHG

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    DO NOT i repeat DO NOT spend all your money carting a woman back and forth to see you
     
  8. Cobra Commander

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    I have to cause she doesn't have a car =(

    Although all the british girls I meet rarely drive anyway..plus she only lives 30 minutes from me
     
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    slightly different than a plane ticket but youre still a dumb bitch. im sure she can afford to ride the underground
     
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    is there any basic advice with trying to make military and LDRs work?
     
  11. Cobra Commander

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    The underground? You are mixing up London's suburbia with the rural areas of England there, m8

    Plus the train takes 2 hours.
     
  12. Cobra Commander

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    Yeah, invest in kleenex and make sure she doesn't get hooked on anti-depressant pills. Talk, phone-sex, don't cheat and the basic shit.

    GL
     
  13. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    :werd: she will probably just cheat on you when you're gone anyway
     
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    8 months left till my EAOS.
     
  15. PlutoBHG

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    fool i dont know where the hell you/she live!

    tell her to ride the double decker! :naughty:
     
  16. Reign

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    Southwest tickets are like 50 bucks each way. That's not bad at all. Shit, that's a tank of gas for me. 100 dollars for a weekend to see the girl I adore chill in bed/on the couch/cook for her in the kitchen, when I'd probably spend that on JUST taking her out to dinner, movies, amusement parks, ice skating, etc. Well that's well worth it.

    Especially since she usually would rather stay in bed/at home.
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    is this the girl that started following you around on this board??
     
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    :bowrofl: I remember that!
     
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    One of the many reasons I'm glad I'm not in the military.
     
  20. PlutoBHG

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    the point is you should split the travel costs/efforts
     
  21. danewreed

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    how'd you meet the 8 girls?
     
  22. dmcgill

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    I'm in the Navy too. Currently I'm on an IA to Afghanistan.

    You don't say how old you are but chances are you're around my age (22). I've been in your shoes before! She already told you she cant handle a deployment...if you guys had enough time together and she figured out that she wants to be with you then she will get through it. She either doesn;t sound very independent (which she needs to be) or she's just not that into you. Either way, don't hate the Navy. It sounds like your an Aircrewman (or just a SAR guy on a ship) so you should probably just focus on you right now. It's early in your career, if this is what you are choosing to do, and you have plenty of time. I know its not what you want to hear but it's the truth.

    I've been there. If it's meant to be it'll happen. If not, cut your losses keep doing your thing and in time the right girl will come along.

    But as for right now, have fun!
     
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    I could type up a whole thing.. but no one will read it or take my advice :p
     
  24. RougeOgre

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  25. Julius

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    I'm at the same point. Hopefully 3 months shorter if I'm released early for my ineligibility for deployment :x:
     

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