Met a girl.

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  1. thisgsx

    thisgsx New Member

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    I met a girl a few weeks back at a bar, we hit it off instantly but ended the night without exchanging any info. We met a second time at the same bar a few weeks later, and this time, she gave me her number. The thing is, everytime I call her, I always get her voicemail or it rings and it ends up going to her voicemail. I've called maybe 6 times throughout the last couple weeks, and left 2 messages. I havnt heard anything back from her. What is your input in this guys/gals? IMO, I think she's a fucking cock tease.
     
  2. Mangina

    Mangina New Member

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    She's either gone away or not interested. If she was interested, she'd have told you that she's going away though. So that leaves.......
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    She's just not that into you :dunno:

    She possibly has a boyfriend that she decided not to tell you about or another guy she is even dating. Either way, move on. Anything past 2 calls and no response is FAR too much.
     
  4. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    low interest
     
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    :werd: move on
     
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    Vysion New Member

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    How do you know it's not a fake number?
     
  7. Alaya

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    Why does it matter?
    If it's real, her actions say she's not interested.
    If it was fake, she was never interested.

    Both outcomes leave him at the same place :dunno:
     
  8. Bugalu

    Bugalu OT Supporter

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    troof.

    I do one call, one text message.

    thats it.

    dont hear back, i delete the number.
     
  9. MattThom01

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    If someone called me 6 times within 2 weeks and didn't realize I didn't want to talk to them, I'd be annoyed.

    Hell, just getting called by someone I don't really know 6 times would be annoying.
     
  10. chica&buddies

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    :werd: but then again, she was the one that gave him the phone number :hsugh: in a way, she may have asked for it. i'm not sure how the phone number capture played out, but nowadays it's hard for a girl to lie about her phone number because more often than not, a guy will call her from his phone right then and there. :sad2:

    :uh: and i totally realize that she could've just said she wasn't interested and bypassed all the games. ;) that would've been too easy though, right?
     
  11. Savage5point0

    Savage5point0 Im an asshole.

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    No more than 2 calls dude. First one, no message. Wait a few days and on the second one leave a quick message. No reason for any more than that.
     
  12. MattThom01

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    she could have been interested that night, but something better came along, or she just didn't need him after a few days passed.
     
  13. IspitHotFire

    IspitHotFire 3 Greatest rappers of all time ? Dylan, Dylan, and

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    6 calls? come on man, step outside this situation and look at it....
     
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    Maybe she gave the wrong number by mistake or you took it down wrong. Is it an automated voicemail?
     
  15. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    i love all the longshot scenarios people come up with

    are you familiar with occam's razor?
     
  16. thisgsx

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    You guys are right, usually I delete the number after the 2nd time, but I guess with this girl, we connected so well it kind of made me blind. To answer some of your questions, I never asked for her number, she was the one who gave it to me. The number she gave me is hers, I called the number she gave me right after leaving the bar and she picked up. Both times we met, she was the one who was insisting that we should go out and do this and that, etc. Anyways, maybe it was love at first sight or whatever, but fuck, I cant stop thinking about her either. Or fuck, maybe it's only infatuation? Well whatever it is, this has never happened to me before, usually when I meet a girl, we fuck, part ways, end of story, but with this chick, it feels like I want more than just a good fuck. Oh well, fuck it, Im deleting her number as of now. I know Im going to end up seeing her at the bar I go to regularly. Fuck it.
     
  17. Mr J

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    Why?
     
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    "OMG, I had so much fun tonight! I think I love you! I wanted to call to make sure that this was your real number, if not I would have been crushed! But since it is your number, it must mean you love me!"

    I kid.
     
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    to confirm if it was actually hers.
     
  20. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    not a bad idea

    its more fun if you do it while she's still standing there with you
     

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