Men/Women sleeping positions

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Sleeping positions

  1. I'm a guy and I like to be behind her and as close as possible..D in the B

    30.8%
  2. I'm a guy and I like facing opposite directions

    11.5%
  3. I'm a guy and I like to have her be draped over me as I face away

    15.4%
  4. I'm a guy and I like to fall asleep facing each other

    1.9%
  5. I'm a girl and I like to be behind him draped over and as close as possible

    1.0%
  6. I'm a girl and I like when he holds me from behind..D in the B

    8.7%
  7. I'm a girl and I like to be as close as possible..facing each other

    1.0%
  8. I'm a girl and I like facing opposite directions

    6.7%
  9. I'm a guy : Sleep on your side, bitch

    17.3%
  10. I'm a girl : Don't touch me

    5.8%
  1. Cobra Commander

    Cobra Commander OT Supporter

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    I have always wondered why it is the way people sleep the way they do..when in a relationship. For the most part, I have always liked facing away from her and having her drape her arms and legs over me and be as close as possible.

    While in a relationship what is the most comfortable for you?

    Why do 90% of women get genuinely upset at the fact that I like the be held vs being the holdee?

    Discuss
     
  2. infinite.purple

    infinite.purple New Member

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    i completely agree with you. i'd rather be the "big spoon" any day. guys don't seem to mind too much in my experience. :)
     
  3. Cobra Commander

    Cobra Commander OT Supporter

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    You are honestly the first woman that have ever heard that from..then again I have never asked
     
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    infinite.purple New Member

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    :dunno: i might feel differently if i dated guys who were much bigger/taller than me, but if both people are roughly similar in size, it doesn't really matter who is facing which way imo
     
  5. Cobra Commander

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    I'm 6' and she is 5'4
     
  6. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Do you have sex like that too? Her dick in your butt? :o

    They get upset because they want you to be the man and hold them and protect them, not the other way around.

    I'm ok with switching to that position when we've been laying in the normal spooning position for too long and it becomes uncomfortable but if a guy always wanted to lay like that I would think it was strange.
     
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    pfft not all of us. i don't need protecting. :mamoru:
     
  8. minkus962

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    I'm all about the D in the B.

    My girlfriend and I are able to get super comfortable with me being the big spoon, with my arm under her head, between her shoulder and the pillow. I can pretty much be up against her entire body, and it makes me :nikko:.
     
  9. Reign

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    I'm good with just about all of those. Start out with the first, usually end up with "Get on your own side bitch"
     
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    I'm a girl : Don't touch me

    i used to be a cuddler. when i first started sleeping with my husband, he broke me of the habit cause he had to lay stretched out with nothing touching him. now i wake up to him on my pillow and superclose to me. he is trying to make me like cuddling again. we will see....
     
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    I like to spoon and be spooned :dunno: Also like laying there in the mornings with her draped over me. Aaaand if i just want to sleep gtfo :rofl: I like to be cold when i'm sleeping.
     
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    lol

    the large majority of the time it'll be start out as him being the big spoon, or laying on his back with my head on his chest type cuddling position, when I actually start sleeping I'll go my separate way. But, almost without fail, I'll wake up in the early hours of the morning and find myself in the big spoon position somehow :hs:
     
  13. Cobra Commander

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    I do like to have my ass eaten, but I surely would not like something besides her tongue getting stuck up there :)

    I understand the male domination aspect and why a woman likes to feel protected but I like to feel comfortable when I try to pass out..not in control
     
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    i like to cuddle but ive always found it hard to fall asleep that way
     
  15. Cobra Commander

    Cobra Commander OT Supporter

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    but in what position do you find the most comfortable?
     
  16. Jacy

    Jacy red lipstick brigade

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    Same here, but I'll wake up on my side of the bed and come up behind him to hold him (in the big spoon position). I like doing this when he's asleep, because he's looking so sweet :hs:
     
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    radfad88 The Batman-O-Lantern

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    i like to be the big spoon bc his body heat gets me all sweaty if he's wrapped around me... but i only like that position for the few minutes before we are actually dozin'. once the real sleep starts i roll over facing away for most of the night to be comfy. like alaya said though, sometimes i wake up in the big spoon position again, and when i do i love to kiss his neck/back... :)
     
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    i always liked facing each other with each others legs across the other one and kinda sleeping on each others faces lol. That was the best position for taking afternoon naps. I spooned her or had her lay on my chest with my laying on back when trying to fall asleep at night though.
     
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    I usually can't sleep facing my girl... Although, I usually get complaints about smothering her while I'm sleeping too hah
     
  20. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    I need to wear a sleep apnea mask so for the most part I sleep facing away from her and if I am facing her she tells me to turn the other one. Sometimes she will drape her arm over me.

    But I like to be behind her and as close as possible but she doesn't like it cause of the snoring:o
     
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    I like to be little spoon but it very rarely happens. I actually got made fun of for saying this is what I preferred :rofl:
     
  22. iwishyouwerebeer

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    We don't fit any of the options.

    I can't fall asleep any way except on my stomach with my head turned left (OCD thing). He can't fall asleep unless he's sleeping on his right side. He's on the left, me on the right. We pretty much never touch each other during sleep nor do we ever really face each other :dunno: Do I think it says something about our relationship? :rofl: No, it's just how we sleep. HOWEVER, when we cuddle for a tiny bit he likes to be the little spoon and me the big spoon, which ironically says a lot about our relationship in my opinion :bowrofl:
     
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    I love to be the little spoon, or resting with my head on his chest, but I cant fall asleep like that. I need my own space for sleeping, but sometimes in the morning he'll roll over for spooning before we have to get up. ^_^ love it
     
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    lol, this is me
     
  25. sportsjunkie

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    i don't mind falling asleep spooning (him big spoon, me little spoon). he's a big dude so me being the big spoon is never going to happen. but once we're in a deep sleep, i don't like to be touched for the most part :o
     

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