Men + Porn=WHY?

Discussion in 'Archives' started by goddesslakini, Jun 19, 2002.

  1. I have a question for the men out there that are in serious relationships. I just wanna try to figure out why do men look at porn if they have a girlfriend/fiancee/wife. The guy says he's totally satisfied with his SO, yet he can't stop looking at porn. And it's not the porn where everyone is f*ing everyone else's brains out. It's just girls naked or girl's doing naughty things. I have no problem watching porn with my SO. But I was just wondering why men look at porn when they're totally satisfied with their SO. And don't just say, it's a guy thing. I'm sick of hearing that. It's just merely an excuse that I'm growning tired of. Please help my confusion.
     
  2. OMEGAMAN

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    whats wrong?

    Whats wrong with appreciating the beauty of womens' bodies? It doesnt mean we have the hots for girls on the magazine, cuz its just beautiful pictures! Girls still look at Brad Pitt even if they are satisfied with their SO... whats the difference? It doesnt mean the girls arent satisfied with their men right?! Its the same thing, except guys look at NAKED pictures cuz there's more to look at in a girl than a guy! What is there to look at when a guys naked? Nothing really... well i wouldnt know cuz i'm not gay so... But you know what i mean? But it is a GUY thing... though unfortunately girls dont seem to understand. Cuz for me, i wouldnt mind my girl putting up a hot guys poster in her room, BUT she wouldnt let me put up a beautiful girl poster and i can't understand why either! So we're from Mars, u guys are from Venus... end of story!
     
  3. but why would he have to appretiate other women's bodies when he says he's totally satisfied with my body? I don't look anymore. I don't need to look anymore. I could frankly care less if all the girls are throwing themselves at Brad Pitt. Good for them, I have my man which I love and adore and think is the hottest thing on earth. I just don't see why he HAS to look at other girls when he says he's satisfied with me...
     
  4. 12xalt

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    I don't really see what it matters as long as you are the one he's with at the end of the day. You're the one he calls his g/f, your the one he spends time with. As long as he's honest and loyal, let him look at them, as long as it's you he's touching. Why do they? I couldn't tell you any more than when I had a great b/f and still looked at pictures of naked women. Women just look good naked.
     
  5. Carl Brutananadilewski

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    :slap: You're a woman, so you probably won't understand, but here goes. Guys look at porn because it's just what they do. It has nothing to do with being satisfied by their SO or anything. Basically, a guy could get some every day and still would look at porn once in a while because it is like time to yourself. When a guy looks at porn and masterbates, they are only pleasing themself. There is no woman to make orgasm, and you only have to worry about busting your nut. It's selfish, basically. But, that's just the way it works. Guys look at porn, and girls will never understand why. The world will still go 'round. :fawk:
     
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    Emfuser Nuclear Moderator Super Moderator

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    Why are you jealous of pictures?

    I think that's the real question.
     
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    my girl likes it too :wiggle:
     
  8. upparoom

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    Men watch porn for a variety of reasons. Truth is most men dont watch it to lust after the women. They watch it for the mere act of sex.

    Some women like it too. Sometimes me and the ex would hit the porn channel when we were feeling in the mood. It made the whole session less inhibitive. We experimented more with porn on because we felt more comfortable doing so.
     
  9. Actvs Dei

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    I only look at porn when im not in a relationship. I just dont feel the need when I have a woman.
     
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  11. Playboy

    Playboy Part time arrogant bastard

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    I agree with IROC. This is means as escape by which we just answer nature's call, much like a strip bar.

    It's safe to say that it's best to drool over pr0n than say cheat on your SO right?

    We like variety and spice. I mean, we are men by default. We aren't dead :bigthumb:
     
  12. SiD Fresh

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    Guys watch porn for the ACTING! :bigthumb:

    But seriously, it might be a way to fantasize or simply that guys are horny most of the day!!!
     
  13. RoblesGT

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  14. lick wid nit wit

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    Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight.

    Anyway, on the porn issue..... if you, goddesslakini, have issues with your man looking at porn, maybe you have self esteem issues you need to address. It is a guy thing, most guys have the porno gene (my guy doesn't :confused: ) and I don't have a problem with it. The girls in porn are just a fantasy for most guys and for the guys who are totally obsessed with it, well, they are the guys who have a problem.

    You know how most chicks read stuff like Glamour magazine and watch Oprah :)barf: ) and read trashy romance novels and such? Well to guys, that is chick porn and they will never understand it and just write it off as chick porn.

    If you seriously want your guy to stop looking at pics of nekkid chicks then maybe you should stop reading Cosmo/watching Oprah/reading Danielle Steel.

    It goes both ways.

    edit: I'm a girl, btw.
     
  15. RoblesGT

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    Oprah and Trashy Romance Novels != Pron ... bad comparison ...

    Women are generally more emotional. Men are generally more physical so they are easily stimulated by what they see and what they touch or touches them.

    A guy should be able to control his sexual urges. Not being able to is weakness on his part. Same for girls, :o
     
  16. Fatghost28

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    Why would a guy want to control his urges?

    There's no benefit to it
     
  17. TheRemains

    TheRemains If I sound disrespectful, it's only because you're

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    Tell it to the priests.
     
  18. MiseryIndex

    MiseryIndex i never know why. i only know who. Moderator

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  19. pmspwrdgsr

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    I don't have a problem with my bf looking at/ watching porn without me. We also watch it together and sometimes I watch it by myself as well. I think it's useless trying to figure out why they do it. I don't think it has anything to do with if they are satisfied with their partners or not, it's just a thing that guys do. I have just learned to accept it. As long as they are only looking, not touching, I don't see why girls should get upset over it.
     
  20. 4C FED

    4C FED Ain't my GOD DAMN planet understand monkey-boy!

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    Personally, I'm married and intend to stay that way. So cheating is certainly out of the question for me.
    So I guess porn is an outlet :OP:for my choice to stay married.
    It allows me to fantasize which adds or maintains excitement in the realtionship.

    She used to give me shit about it, but now she actually wants to watch it sometimes.
     
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    Oh, and it's just a guy thing. I don't care if you're tired of hearing it or not.
     
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    one word

    VARIETY
     
  23. RoblesGT

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    To please his mate. Unless that is not of benefit ... :rolleyes:

    I think they qualify under the "guy" sprectrum .. :rolleyes:
     
  24. Fatghost28

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    pleasing my mate < pleasing myself. :o


    But my gf loves porn too. In fact, every girl I know loves porn.

    I don't know how anyone could not love porn?
    :dunno:
     
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    amen to porn
     

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