men: is it normal to not have ANY female friends?

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  1. BCIT

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    not only that, but have not the slightest interest in making ones? I'm not gay, but I just came to this revelation today when I was working with my study group at school.

    Everytime the girls tried to crack jokes or act cute I became irritated, and I always made a B-line to talk to the dudes. Has porn caused this?
     
  2. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    It's not normal to me as I find most guys around my area so incredibly fucking tedious and only interested in sport and how pissed they got on the weekend that I seem to spend most of my time talking to women

    Just depends on what sort of person you are I guess
     
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    It's called being a guy. :dunno:

    Being friends with a female usually translates to having to listen to her sob stories more frequently than you would with guys.
     
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    LOL, I guess the shoe is on the other foot
     
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    why would porn have anything to do with it? :hsugh:
     
  6. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Depends. I don't give a shit about that side of things, but when I want to talk about art, music, literature, design (all of which I'm interested in) then I find in my area that I'm more likely to end up talking to girls about it.

    Most conversations that guys have in my area are so fucking tedious. I don't care how many beers you drank after your fifth grade football match, or how many girls you shagged last night. It's fucking boring.
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

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    He makes it sound like he can't stand women. They are only sex objects, therefore he can't just be friends with any of them. Watching a lot of porn has possibly made him idealize all women as whorish and only for planting the seed. That's just my take :dunno:
     
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    :rofl:

    I was kinda wondering that too.
     
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    I find that if I want to talk about those things, I usually have to seek out the internet. :mamoru:

    You must still be in school.
     
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    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Nope. 23. Been out of school for 6 years. I just don't fit in to the area I grew up in and now live/work. Very boring, conservative, white trash area where women are for rolling onto, grunting for 2 mintues, then rolling off and leaving the house.

    Been bashed for being a "poofta" because I don't give a shit about the trivial things that people care about here :hs:
     
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    Sounds like my kinda area. :bigthumb:
     
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    i think you pretty much spelt it out :o :mamoru:
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :bigthumb: I figured
     
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    There's a difference between not being able to get along with women, and not being friends with women.

    I can get along with women just fine. Do I have any women friends? Not really at this time. I pretty much only spend time with women I am interested in romantically or sexually.

    I think it's fine.
     
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    he sounds like hes disgusted ever time one opens their mouth..... and that's not really normal. :dunno:
     
  16. BCIT

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    this is sorta the case :o

    that, or being uncomfortable and wanting to extricate myself from the situation.

    i also never got along with my mom.
     
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    Ultimately it depends on what kind of guy you are, and where your interests lie. - and as well the interests of the women who are in your social sphere.

    I'm a writer and the people I associate with are other writers, artists of varying niche's, and a small assortment of professional types - most of whom are connected to the mentioned fields. So I actualy have quite a lot of female friends.


    But if your main interests are sports and so forth, or just generally view women differently(read: negatively), then you probably don't have many or wouldn't want any female friends.
     
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    Weird. It's generally considered that having too many female friends makes you gay, not the other way around. :hsugh:
     
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    yeah, but it's like women repulse me
     
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    There's your trouble.
     
  21. BCIT

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    I also have become really good friends with a guy in my group who's in the same rut.

    He told me a funny story about how when he was in grade 6 his teacher asked the class to do a freestyle essay, and he thought he should rap about his life. He talked about how his dad was womanizer, and how his mom was a whore, and how ever since she left the family he had no confidence with women and considered them all sex objects. The school administration got so freaked that they sent a SWAT team of school psychiatrists to the school that very day :rofl::rofl:

    they put him on meds and everything, and considered him a basket case. At present he runs porno sites.:hsugh::rofl:

    so ya, me and him are always joking about women n stuff :o
     
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    i realize this sounds cliche...but if it is really this bad, you may want to get some therapy.

    There's quite a few women out there who are fine and dandy to be around in the everyday world.
     
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    how old are you?
     
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    I think it's awkward if you don't have any female friends at all.
     

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