Is it everyday? Is it multiple times per day? I've had it with listening to my gf complain about shit multiple times per day. I've tried to be patient and understanding as most of her friends and her best friend are gone to other states, but this is getting ridiculous. I'd say that a good 99% of her calls throughout the day are to complain about something, mostly her job. How 'this person doesn't do this,' or 'i do all of this but no one pulls their weight.' It's the same conversation every single time about how she feels disrespected and whatnot. This has been going on since late last year. I've done my part in just listening and consoling her. I've done my part in giving her solid advice when she asks for it. But obviously it goes in one ear and out the other or has no effect on her because sure enough, like clockwork, she still complains. My belief is that there comes a point where if you don't get off your ass and do something about it, you DESERVE what you are getting, and I want to tell her this but I'm thinking that it's probably not a good idea. The part that gets me is that it's gotten to the point where basically everytime she calls, she doesn't even ask how my day went first or say something like 'hey babe,' it's straight to yappin about what it is that's bothering her that day. All I have time to do is pick up the phone and say 'hello.' Anyone going through this or is it just me? Edit - So I added a poll.