men and women when it comes to cheaters

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  1. DreadJockey

    DreadJockey New Member

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    from my experience men cover for their cheating buddies(if they have no interests at all in the woman getting cheated on) way more than women cover for other women
    as a matter of fact I find women are quicker to bust other women

    many of the fellas I have know had at least a few of their friends not only know & cover they cheater friends they know the GOS and may have hung out with them before.

    women dont tell a bloody soul ESPECIALLY not dey female friends
    hey keep shit on the low low low


    I also find that men will to a lesser extent also cover for female friends they know are cheating

    women seem to be fully against the notion no matter who is doing it and quick to drop dime men and females alike.
     
  2. kristaliah

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    Girls are bitches so why would they cover for each other?
     
  3. jonno

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    for the most part, girls will stab each other in the back over dumb shit :rofl:. guys are much better friends :h5:
     
  4. AGirlCalledKill

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    I was in this situation once where I was sharing a house with my boyfriend and his best friend and his girlfriend. She used to do promotion work and would often be away for a few days. He then started seeing this other girl behind his girlfriends back. I really wanted to tell her she was being cheated on because I knew she really loved him but my boyfriend told me not to. So I kept my mouth shut for a while. But then my housemate started bringing the new girl home for the night and I heard him telling her he loved her etc etc just like he did with his girlfriend. So I ended up telling both the new girl and the girlfriend how devious and decietful he was. He moved out quite quickly afterwards
     
  5. just tat

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    girls are more empathetic, and tend to put themselves in the situation to reason what they should do. "if i were being cheated on... i'd want to know." this logic leads to two options
    1) tell the cheater to confess
    2) tell the person being cheated on
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Some of you say it's because women are "bitches" who "back stab" which honestly can be very true. But even when it's a situation where a girl finds out a girl friend of hers is cheating on her bf (whom she doesn't like in a sexual way) she'll still tell him...not because she's a bitch, but because she's smart and has morals...unlike some men who follow this ridiculous "code."
     
  7. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    :werd: I'm not going to cover for a cheater, they don't deserve it. Anyone who is being cheated on deserves to know so they can have all the facts and then decide what to do. And if a friend didn't want to talk to me anymore after I "busted" them then oh well :dunno: I'd rather not be friends with a person who treats others like that anyway.
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Mother fuckin :werd:
     
  9. huntz0r

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    BROS BEFORE HOES amirite :hsugh:



    I once had a girl I just met tell me her girl friend - at the club with her - was cheating on her fiancee. I dunno that they actually tattle to the guy being cheated on all that often though. Unless they are drama queens or they want to steal the guy (which isn't likely since he's a bit devalued at that point).
     
  10. KindlyCuddly

    KindlyCuddly Irina Lazareanu

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    Definitely not true from my experience. Plenty of my girlfriends cheat and it's greeted with nothing more than :h5: by the other girls.
     
  11. ChaCha

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    god that was annoying to read.


    cliffs: guys are more likely to cover for their unfaithful friends. girls are less likely to cover for their unfaithful friends.

    and the reason why?

    Most guys don't make other people's lives their business.
     
  12. huntz0r

    huntz0r New Member

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    I once had lunch with my then-gf and her also-attached girl friend, who - unbeknownst to me - had recently participated in their first threesome with the guy they - unbeknownst to me - both happened to be fucking at the time. AND they made oblique reference to it right in front of me while giggling. How's that for fucked up?

    (I had no idea what they were talking about, but a while later I was doing detective work on her aim logs and put the pieces together... I have a good memory)
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :hsugh: Yikes.
     
  14. Doc Love

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    Owned by the AIM Logs again.
     
  15. huntz0r

    huntz0r New Member

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    Yeah, we've had this discussion before.

    I maintain that cheaters and liars forfeit their right to privacy.
     
  16. Doc Love

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    Yup.
     
  17. huntz0r

    huntz0r New Member

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    You seem to be agreeing with me a lot more since I started busting your balls :rofl:
     
  18. Doc Love

    Doc Love Guest

    You offer valid points, would you rather I disagree with you? I didn't notice you busting my balls, where was that?
     
  19. ChaCha

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    it is a bit shady but some people need solid evidence I guess.

    I've never done anything like that WHILE I was with anybody :hs:

    unfortunately firefox saves passwords and curiosity got the best of me.
     
  20. ChaCha

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    yeah but you didn't know until after you breached her privacy
     
  21. huntz0r

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    I didn't, but I sorta did, nawmean
     
  22. demosnat

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    Yep. I personally think it is MUCH more ethical to tell the person being wronged, then to support such horrible behavior.

    I would want to be told, and I would tell. Period.
     
  23. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :werd: I find it simply amazing though that a lot of men really don't think this way. Like "I better condone that guys cheating behavior, because if I ever do that...." Which sickens me. If I was being cheated on I don't care who told me, but I'd want to be told!
     
  24. stermy

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    if you do find women cheating you gotta leave them, cause they dont stop. i have a friend who dates this girl who fucks a random guy every weekend and he still doesnt care and is still with her. not to say that she sets an example for all but thats just one example. i have a friend friends that are girls that are constant cheaters.
     
  25. Viper

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    If he knows she's doing it, then it's not really cheating. Sounds more like an open relationship. :dunno:
     

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