Meh, don't know what to do

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  1. knucks

    knucks Active Member

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    Long story short, the girl I'm seeing/hanging out with won't have sex with me unless we're in a monogamous relationship.

    We've done everything but had sex. She made it sound like we can stay the way we are now, and I can just find sex elsewhere, or be "exclusive, but without the title", and have sex.

    WHAT THE FUCK
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Told you you should've stopped wasting your time weeks ago :dunno:

    It's up to you though, WTF do you want?

    I bet you a million dollars if you fuck around with her still and start sleeping with other girls she'll flip out even when she says she's ok with it.
     
  3. knucks

    knucks Active Member

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    I haven't been wasting my time. I've enjoyed our together, I just don't like having to enter into a relationship to have sex, so I'm not telling her that is what I want to do, because it isn't.
     
  4. jonno

    jonno New Member

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    pretty obvious dude. just get sex elsewhere if you want it... obviously you don't want to get into a relationship just so you can start having sex with the girl. it doesnt sound like you're that into her to be in a relationship.

    IMO though she will eventually start fucking you either way. :o
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Then you've got your answer.
     
  6. knucks

    knucks Active Member

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    yeah

    basically half of the threads i make on here can be deleted lol
     
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    :rofl:
     
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    Vysion New Member

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    Do you know how to play "just the tip"?
     
  9. Savage5point0

    Savage5point0 Im an asshole.

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    sounds like you have a few options. Assuming you're not sleeping with anyone else, just go along with it. Shes not saying you have to be her b/f. Then if you meet someone else just be honest about it.. No reason to miss out on sleeping with this chick over semantics. Just tell her what she wants to hear.
     
  10. wait... she does not want to be bf/gf correct? "exclusive, but without the title"

    so basically all she requires is that you only sleep w. her, and no one else... right?

    this seems easy to me.... be monogamus and sleep w. her.
    if one day you are out and meet another girl you want to have sex w. then just tell the current girl that you found someone else and that you are no longer interested in being monogamus.

    i assume she just wants this so she does not have to worry about STDs. if that is the case you could even sleep w. a new girl w.o even telling your current girl as long as you are honest and tell her BEFORE you sleep w. her again.
     
  11. after you read my post go fuck her and enjoy life until you find another girl.
     
  12. knucks

    knucks Active Member

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    She said she didn't want it to be just about hooking up. That she likes me.

    Right. I'm not even seeing anyone else right now. This is probably what I will do.
     


  13. then what the fuck does what i quoted mean? she wants to be w. you but w.o the title, right?
     
  14. knucks

    knucks Active Member

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    oh i dunno confusing.
    i agree with you.
     
  15. smack some sense into her.

    tell her "i will be monogamus w. you and will uphold your request of us not having a title".

    then only fuck her but you are free to flirt. if you find another chick do your thing and break it off w. your current girl ASAP.
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl:

    ot.blog.com
     
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    if she's not getting sex elsewhere (which I assume she isn't), she probably eventually want to fuck you. or she'll move on.
     
  18. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    how do you get yourself in these situations?

    jk its happened to me before too
     
  19. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    just more evidence of women withholding sex from the guys they want a relationship with...

    (while screwing around on the side)
     
  20. KindlyCuddly

    KindlyCuddly Irina Lazareanu

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    :confused: he refused to have sex with you unless you were monogamous?
     
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    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    oh i see

    when you said "my hubby and i started outthis way" you actually meant "my hubby and i started out a different way"

    gotcha
     
  22. knucks

    knucks Active Member

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    right.
     
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    WTF LoriLove!?! Can you understand how fucking asinine this sounds?
    By 'started out this way', I am assuming you mean like the TS where he is hanging out with a girl that wont have sex with him unless they are in a dedicated relationship. So you told your hubby before you were married and hanging out that you wouldn't have sex with him unless you were in a dedicated relationship... but then you went away for a weekend, hooked up with 2 guys, and then came back and told him about it? I can only believe your intentions of telling him about it was to make him jealous. Can you see how shady this sounds? :squint: :o

    And another example of how you tell women how they react in relationships and dating and they always deny, deny, deny, saying "my situation/story was different". :squint:
     
  25. KindlyCuddly

    KindlyCuddly Irina Lazareanu

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    I think it was the husband who didn't want a monogamous relationship. I don't see how it was shady to do exactly what is implied in a non-monogamous relationship.
     

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