meeting someone online - first date ideas?

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  1. Woodmaster

    Woodmaster New Member

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    Had a thread going awhile back but I think it was a part of another one. Dinner and movie are boring and same old stuff. Creative ideas OTers?
     
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    What do you have in common? I'm a big fan of activity dates, like bowling.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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  4. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :werd: Rock climbing ftw
     
  5. Woodmaster

    Woodmaster New Member

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    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    at your mom's house. be back later.
    It's a blast, especially if it's your first time around. Just make sure you call the gym ahead of time so you can guarantee that someone will be there to belay for you.
     
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    a former boss of mine told me meeting a chick for breakfast is great because you have a set time limit :dunno:
     
  8. D7

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    one of my gal friends does this to eliminate expectation of going home together at the end of the night
     
  9. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    what kind of girl is she where that's even an issue ?
     
  10. antihero

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    be careful. sometimes women will overstate their athleticism and then you have kinda an awkward situation.

    I definitely think things along the challenge level of mini golf are awesome. rock climbing would be too much for many girls and do you really want to find out the hard way that this is one of them?
     
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    what kind of weird girl would she have to be for that not to be an issue?
     
  12. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl::werd:
     
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    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    If that's a problem, then it sounds like it's better to find out if a guy is the type who wants sex on the first date, so that she can eliminate him as a potential 2nd. Unless all she cares about is not looking/feeling like a whore.
     
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    She was doing online dating and it wasn't that she didn't want to sleep with them at all, just not the first time she met them.
     
  15. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Coffee. Fuck all this you have to entertain her or plan something unique and exciting. First date is an interview, man. No need for theatrics.
     
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    :werd: save it for later dates
     
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    Hey bro, if you're seriously looking into Rock Climbing, I dont know what CT has to offer, or where in CT you are, but here in RI we got a nice facility.

    RI Rock Gym, google it! Its about 15 mins from the heart of Providence, so depending where in CT you are, might be right around the corner.
     
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    Rock climbing is solid

    Right now I'm weighing the options of doing skeet shooting as a first date

    I have 2 first dates this week, but I also really want to try skeet shooting (did it on my cousin's farm at t-giving and LOVED it).

    If one of them accepts I'm going fap it to her on the spot.
     
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    an activity that YOU enjoy
     
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    Sex, smoking pot, driving fast..

    Oh you meant the OP :mamoru:

    On a side note, over the years I have realized that a pot smoking girl = the easiest first date ever.
     
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    What about a hockey game for a first date? (assuming she is into hockey, or any sport for that matter)
     
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    my thoughts exactly. i wouldn't even consider the first meeting with the online person a date. i would want to be in a neutral enviroment where i can cut the event short if we don't click. if we do click, then perhaps transition from coffee into some of the other activities mentioned (time permitting).
     
  23. Joshua

    Joshua ambition over everything OT Supporter

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    Coffee is boring as shit and lets be honest a round of mini golf is the same price as a fucking cup of coffee these days.

    Mini golf is my current fav. Down side is I'm so super awesome at mini golf I destroy everyone I take. :(
     
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    Having an in-depth conversation with a woman is boring?
     
  25. Joshua

    Joshua ambition over everything OT Supporter

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    For a first date, yep! You are incapable of talking and getting to know someone while doing something active?

    I probably have something ass backwards but for me I like to see if I can get along with someones personality first and then reserve a second (or sometimes even a third) date for really getting to know them with 'in-depth' conversation.
     

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