Meeting people through friends...

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Horror, Oct 21, 2008.

  1. Horror

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    It's the best way to meet someone. My issue is that my two main close group of friends don't hang out with many new people, ever.

    I have a bunch of random friends, but I think it'd be weird to say "hey introduce me to one of your single girlfriends". I can always ask what they're up to, but i usually get the "no idea for now until later" shit and I make plans in the meantime.

    Bah. How's this done?
     
  2. jonno

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    it's not the 'best' way necessarily. you just think it's the best way because you don't have to put yourself out there because you fear getting rejected if you were to approach a random girl.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    It's "best" when you tend to be a sort of homebody or not a fan of parties, nightlife, going out. But what I don't get Horror is that you say in your other thread that you are incredibly outgoing, love meeting people, etc....and I know you are trying but if you aren't exhausting ALL possible pickup spots you aren't fully trying. This includes going to a party you've only heard about and making friends on your own.

    My current bf is one of the only guys I was introduced to through friends, but I've gone on dates with lots of other men (over years keep in mind) that I had to meet on my own terms due to friends that were in their own little worlds.
     
  4. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    I always tell my friends to introduce me to their hot friends :mamoru:
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I used to set up every nice single guy that joined my friend circle :dunno: It's just what you do.
     
  6. Horror

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    Granted, I'll be 21 in a month, so the nightlife will open up wonderfully soon. No more random on campus "hi". Oh, Nikki, question. If a girl is sitting by herself in the quad on campus, is she fair game (in your eyes) if I approach her and ask to join (indirectly making a joking comment first like, "lol hope your tan's coming well").

    Well, for example, tomorrow there's a sorority BBQ event going down. I have nobody particular to go with, but I want to go. I would feel weird showing up by myself. Walking around, finding a group to approach. Bla bla. I mean, I have no issue, but I don't nkow what others would think.
     
  7. jonno

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    there you go. just show up. it's not weird at all if you mingle and strike up conversation with a group of girls. what WOULD be weird is if you go by yourself and just stand there not talking to anyone.
     
  8. Horror

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    I'll give a full report back, tomorrow. It's breast cancer event, so I hope someone has a pink tie. I wish my "I love boobs" shirt was here sooner.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well, coming from someone who went to FSU where every day the girls laid out on the lawns in their bikini's hoping to get noticed and/or hit on....yeah, they are definitely fair game. Sure, maybe not every single one will want you to hit on them or maybe some wont want to get hit on at all, but why bother questioning if it's "ok" or not?

    Oh, go to the BBQ. You are absolutely nuts if you think a Greek party is going to be so cliquey you'll be left alone. All you do is join a group and eventually speak up :dunno: I used to do it all the time. As long as you walk in confidently no one will even notice you are alone in a bad way.
     
  10. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    Thatta girl :h5:
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Set up 3 married couples already!
     
  12. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    Look at you the love doctor!

    :naughty:
     
  13. jonno

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    damn.
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :werd: One is also engaged now. They call me the matchmaker :mamoru:

    Meanwhile, I am not married :run:
     
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    matchmaker huh? looks like im packin my bags for Tampa GO RAYS!!
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :mamoru: Problems is now I've hooked up pretty much all of my single girlfriends, so now I'm just left with all my single guy friends with no one to set them up with! Though two just met and have become serious with girls they met on their own :hs:
     
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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    pics? :naughty:
     
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    throw a party
     
  19. victimizati0n

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    iv done it before

    just ask them to invite her to dinner with you and their friends, dont make it a date type thing, and see how things work out.. if they are good, then get her number, if you hate her, there is nothing lost
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Are you cool with heavy, heavy stoner hippies??? :mamoru:
     

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