Meeting people at an inbetween age?

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  1. MCDGexx

    MCDGexx Crazyquack

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    Well i'm 20 and in the military, stationed out here in Hawaii. My problem is I just don't know where to go to meet people, most girls in the military either are 1. Unattractive, 2. Married/long term relationship or 3. Gay. On top of the fact that there is like a 10 to 1 ratio of males to females. And I'm not really in school yet, and i'm gonna start taking classes soon, but all online because I deploy soon, and don't have the time/luxury to go to actual sit down classes at the moment. And being under 21 I can't get into all the bars/clubs to meet people either. So what do I do? Do I just need to get the courage to walk up to some stranger at the mall and start talking to them? Or is that considered wierd? I also just got out of a 3 year relationship about 5 months ago or so, and because of schools and everything haven't had the time to get out and start working on my dating game.
    edit: I don't consider myself unattractive, but heres a pic for reference

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    Doesn't sound like you're going to have a whole ton of time to be working on your game or dating anyone anyway. You may need to resort to talking to people out in public. It may or may not be weird depending on your social skills. So, that's what you can work on...
     
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    true..
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Seems pretty pointless to try and start a relationship. Just get used to talking to every girl you find attractive and keeping up casual sexual relationships (if possible). Starting a relationship with your status just seems silly.
     
  5. MCDGexx

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    true.....but actually that means I shouldn't start a relationship for the next....shit 8-9 years? haha I plan on going to college full time when I get out then med school :o
     
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    :squint: chicks dick the transformers.
     
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    your physical appearance is a plus and will help you get good initial responses. you can't go to bars, but you can go to cafe's, bookstores, mall, whatever. i am also voting on just meeting people out in public.
     
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    MCDGexx Crazyquack

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    Maybe the inter-web is not for you...
     
  9. nezfotnemom

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    Look for a Hair/Beauty school. Wear fatigues. Get haircut. You will have DOZENS of girls offering phone #s. Guaranteed. Tried this with a friend of mine who is AF one time HOLY BALLS di the girls go nuts when we walked in to get haircuts
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    BTW, my friend in the Navy wears his uniform every night that he goes out. He gets more numbers than you can even imagine without even asking. Women give them to him.
     
  11. Dahlia

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    Okay, you guys should really stop hating on him for the transformers!

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    I have a transformers shit too and I wear it all the time lol.......:mamoru:
     
  12. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    but you are a dork too :mamoru:





















    And women can get away with wearing stupid shit a lot easier.
     
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    Ain't that the truth!
     
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    Hawaii is not the best place to try and connect. Locals usually won't give you the time of day and haole girls have had too many bad experiences, are ex-military wives or have heard bad stories about military guys.

    If you are just looking for someone to hang out and casual date, try the beach.

    Good luck!!
     
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    This is prob true... If my batman comics and video game collection didn't give it off lol..

    BUT I will say, a guy wearing something different vs. wearing ambercrombie or hollister gets more attention from me. He's bound to be more interesting and fun to be around. But thats just my opinion. :dunno:
     
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    sleev It's sleep, life, and death It's speed, coke, and

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    sleev It's sleep, life, and death It's speed, coke, and

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    my friend's wife wears these horrible shirt/sweaters with horses on them all the time. :wtf:
     
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    Okay... thats really bad lol.... I dont wear that crazy of stuffs.
     
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    just go deploy alot till you turn 21! :)
     
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    I think you guys should stop harping on him for his clothes... It's just a t-shirt, and its not like hes dressed really scrubby, or the shirt is way oversized.

    How you dress partly conveys your personality, and seeing a shirt like that (or like the ones on threadless.com and such). There is a way to dress really young and immature, and a way to dress the same things and come off as more adult. Atleast I think so. Again, I see a guy with a little more substance and may be more interesting then the guy in polos. But thats just my two cents, with the guys that I like personally. And who knows the type of girl he is wanting to attract.
     
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    Haha at you guys thinking I actually wear that shirt out in public....it was laundry day. :o

    normally I always wear button up shirts or I have a few hollister t's and some other t-shirts. :o
     
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    Women in the military are all worthless whores. Stay away.

    I enjoyed the single life when I was active Army. Think it would be easier dating in the Colorado Springs area? Wrong. I had to dig myself out of a hole from the get-go. I'd wait until you get to a stateside location before you start any serious dating.

    My recommendation is you should just troll the beaches for sluts. You look like you could do well at that.
     
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    :( that's not a standard issue military t-shirt? :rofl:
     
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    I WISH I were in the military. Dude, chicks love men in uniform, because

    a) they automatically think you can protect them (the same way 4'9 chicks think a 6'5 dude can protect her or some shit, and so they go for them)
    b) you are reliable (you have a job, which makes you better than half the dudes out there)
    c) at least you are in decent physical shape (again making you better than half the dudes out there)
    d) because uniforms = sex to women

    Make sure you have that uniform on when you are out and about and you will get oh so many numbers.
     
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    haha the only people that wear uniforms out are the guys that just got outta boot camp a week ago...
     

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