Meeting girls via a Dance Class (Waltz)

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  1. fixthe fernback

    fixthe fernback New Member

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    It's a class that meets once a week. Think it's a good idea? I'm a terrible dancer and have never taken a class or tried to practice, but I've just realized that I haven't really met any girls at all the entire last semester and the prospects in my classes are... well... there are none (ME ftl).

    I had recently told my good friend of 4/5 years that I had feelings for her, but she said that it was never meant to be (even though she kissed back :o), so I'm feeling kind of down. I don't think (read:hope) it will be too awkward between us (thankfully, she's great) in the future. I'm rather dissapointed, but I was prepared to be let down. A few hours before I told her how I felt She had suggested that I take a Waltz class with her to meet girls. Was she right?

    Anyway, This post makes no sense, so let me summarize. I want to meet girls by taking a dance class because I'm feeling a little upset that a relationship was doomed to never happen didn't work out. Think a dance class would be a good idea?

    :o
     
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  2. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Yes.

    But, "I'm feeling upset that a relationship that was doomed," is a terrible sentence.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I cannot begin to express how wonderful an idea this is. I've taken dance classes before and not only are they fun, but they really are good for many reasons:
    1. You meet a bunch of people
    2. You can meet the opposite sex
    3. Dancing is a great way to lose weight
    4. Knowing how to dance can impress a lot of people in your future

    I personally think men who take the time to even think outside the box and take a dance class are sexy. I see that you will be taking this class with a friend/girl you have feelings for. Normally I would say this is sketchy considering you shouldn't really put yourself in a position to be around her all the time to dwell on the two of you...but I guess if you are having realistic expectations that it's just not gonna happen and you will only be friends-then do it. Do it with the expectations to have fun and meet other people, and possibly women like she said.
     
  4. fixthe fernback

    fixthe fernback New Member

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    I brain farted and forgot to finish that sentence :o

    I just hope she doesn't think that I'm joining the dance class to increase my chances with her. I'm going to make a conscious effort to no longer chase after her.
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Stop worrying about how she feels. If anything you need to do this dance class for every reason BUT her and how she feels about it. Go, flirt with other women you meet there, etc. If she really doesn't think about you as more than her friend you'll find out by how she reacts at you no longer acting infatuated with her.
     
  6. KindlyCuddly

    KindlyCuddly Irina Lazareanu

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    Oh, if you tell her that you took the class to meet women it'll probably kill the awkwardness between you and she may help you out.
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    She told him to take the class with her to meet women. So he should do just that.
     
  8. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    you prolly will meet some weird women there... who waltzes? lol.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Obviously you've never been to any kind of dance class. I took one (waltz & swing) and there were good looking women there :eek3: Shocking I know. Who would ever want to do a dance that doesn't only involve grinding your ass into a guys dick or swaying from side to side at some ratty club :hsugh:
     
  10. MattThom01

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    You don't really have anything to lose...sure, you may not meet any girls, but still, you will be doing something with your time (thus avoiding boredom), learning something new that could be handy sometime in the future....and if nothing else, it's a conversation piece.

    Personally though, I wouldn't focus on meeting a girl UNTIL you got over the whole "I want to meet a girl because this other thing didn't work out" feeling.
     
  11. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    lol if its a college class, yes, but if its not then no. college classes all have hot chicks.
     
  12. fixthe fernback

    fixthe fernback New Member

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    Not classes in my major...
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well mine were outside of college :hsugh: Again, I think most women would find it really sexy if they found out their man knew how to waltz.
     
  14. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    cool bro. is it easier for you to think in broad generalities like this?
     
  15. Taker

    Taker 找死吗?

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    you'd have to learn how to dance eventually....so why not
     
  16. huntz0r

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    It's a great idea in general, you may not have much (or any) success with the women there until you get your emotions worked out and are back on top of your game. Also seeing the girl you split with may be counterproductive on that front. Maybe you should take a dance class somewhere else.
     
  17. JordanClarkson

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    all i know is that the guys who dance really good are the ones who get the girls. and the best dancer i know said he started ballroom dancing when he was young. he can dance anything from line dancing to swing to hip hop. it's a great base to start with.
     
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    Take the dance class, but leave your "friend" at home.
     
  19. huntz0r

    huntz0r New Member

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    If you want to be that good you have to train for years tho... and it can be really really expensive :hs:

    Girls swoon for the pro level dancers, that I can tell you.
     
  20. JordanClarkson

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    it's $10/class here. and he had only 2 years of training.
     
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    2 years is long enough to get pretty good in several styles with good instruction.

    These must be community subsidized classes. Dance schools are pricey.
     
  22. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    ok instead im supposed to say, i know that class, women are all ugly?

    i mean what the fuck are we talking about here? the entire topic is a broad generalization....
     
  23. JohnJohnJohnson

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    i dunno i guess you could talk from experience. i guess
     

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