meeting girls at college parties and facebook question

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  1. Casino

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    So far all the girls that I've hooked up with at college have been girls I met through friends at small dorm parties. When we go to the big frat parties there are tons of girls I'd like to get with, but I don't know how to start out with them. Like they are all drunk and dancing, but I suck at dancing so I can't just go start dancing. What advice do you have on introducing myself to them without being weird.

    For the facebook question, when I joined my schools network on facebook over the summer this one cute girl friended me. We wrote on each others wall for awhile and seemed to get along. That lasted for like 2 weeks over the summer then we never talked again. I completely forgot about her until I saw her on campus. I recognized her but when she looked at me it didn't seem like she recognized me. How could I remind her about that without seeming like a facebook stalker?
     
  2. HuskiRuski

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    for your first question, just go and dance.
    as long as you're not an awful dancer (like can't even grind to a beat), you'll be fine.
     
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    ? "You look familiar. Did you used to work at X? No.. Y? Oh, I know...from facebook. It's been a while since I've been on there."

    ...Or just buck up and ask if she remembers talking to you on Facebook. I don't think it'll come off too stalkery that you remember chatting with her before. Now if you can remember every photo and every one of her most favorite hobbies and friends, that'd be a little creepy.
     
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    . if she remembers you you'll have no problem hitting it off.. if she doesn't even with a little prodding i'd call it quits and move on. No sense wasting your time and someone that doesn't remember you.
     
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    best way is to offer them shots.
     
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    They're drunk, so if you cant dance, it doesnt really matter - they probably wont notice. By the same token, if you introduce yourself and its weird, they probably wont notice either.
     
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    heres a suggestion. go approach drunk girls
     
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    Approaching drunk chicks makes it so much easier to talk to girls, just try it sometime. As far as the dancing, 1-they're drunk so they probably don't care and 2-women usually appreciate if a guy just wants to try to dance since most are so adverse to it. So either way you slice it buddy, you have nothing to fear but fear in itself :big grin:

    As for facebook, I wouldn't put much stock in it. Writing messages on someone's wall is also no way to gauge someone's interest. I bet her wall (and her myspace comment page, if applicable) is probably filled with comments from other guys that may be in the same boat as you. That would explain why she didn't even recognize you on campus. Or hell, who knows, maybe she had a bad day, maybe she was on her period and not in the mood to be approached or talked to, there are so many things that you don't know that could have happened. Now if you run into her again and the same thing happens, then that closes your case.

    The thing is, college is such a fertile ground to meet so many different women that unless you're 1000% (yes, 1000) sure that this is going to be your future wife and mother of your children, there is no point in trying to woo some broad whom you exchanged facebook messages with for a couple of weeks. Stop analyzing the situation and go close on some ass.
     

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