me and my girl...

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  1. spitfire

    spitfire New Member

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    ok so ive been w/ my gf for just over 3yrs,i like her very much and im pretty sure she likes me the same..Im 20 and shes 19.Now when it somes to sex she doesnt seem that interested,like it wudnt bother her if we didnt do it for weeks.whenever i even try to talk about sex or about what she likes,she just tells me to stop,like shes imbarressed.When we do do it,she enjoys it and tells me it was nice,But this is just getting to me,so basically im just wondering if theres anybody else in the same situation and even somebody who can make a suggestion,thanks for reading!
     
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    Engrish plz?
     
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    Engrish?
     
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    You two have communication issues if you cant freely talk about sex after 3 years.

    That and you "like her very much"?
     
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    ye but its not like i have problem talking to her.Buy why wud she want to be with some1 who she feels she cant communicate well with??ahhh!
     
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    while she may like you, and enjoy your company, she might be finding it difficult to communicate with a 14yo.


    :hsugh:
     
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    good point,cheers!
     
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    you're with a girl who is too immature to talk about having sex. If she can't talk about it, why is she having sex in the first place?

    If she can't talk about it, communicate her feelings about sexual issues, she should NOT be having sex. She's not ready for it.
     
  9. musiclady4life

    musiclady4life My palette is your ear...

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    I was thinking the exact same thing (being a 30 y/o female). Comfort with these things comes with age. Good luck.
     

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