FRK Masturbation

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  1. Why

    Why New Member

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    Can someone give me a reason not to feel ashamed about jacking off?
    I can't stop feelings guilty after masturbating, but I WANT TO! I'M ATHEIST ALSO. I do it once a week. At least I try to. I get sooo horny.. Help?
     
  2. dumb_end_user

    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    Try the Asylum.
     
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    Masturbation is a) fun, b) perfectly natural, c) fun, and d) one of the healthier ways to release sexual tension. And it's fun.

    Besides, as long as you're clean about stuff then you won't ever get STDs. And as girls like myself are concerned it's good, clean, and I won't get pregnant - this part is important.

    You likely feel guilty about it because our society frowns upon any activity that allows a person to feel pleasure - such is the effect of the rampant puritanism which is ruining this country slowly but surely.
     
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    Once a week? try once a day or more lol
     
  5. TigreTek

    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    this really doesn't belong in here but i'm honestly not sure where to put it.
     
  6. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    for guys, regular orgasms can reduce the rate of prostate cancer.
     
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    Bobula Fairly Useless

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    2 times a day
     
  8. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    Masturbation is healthy (unless it's done in some detrimental, dangerous fashion or is done so much it impedes with you leading a normal life). It releases endorphins, Seratonin and other "happy" hormones that keep us samea nd help relieve stress. It's an outlet for sexual tension and is free from pregnancy, Std's (unless you are messing around with other people's dirty toys or something) and emotional stresses of another person getting involved in you sexlife.

    Why be guilty. there is no need to be, in all honesty, ashamed of what is healthy and natural.
     
  9. Why

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    I've been trying to stop my masturbation addiction for a year now, but as foucsed as I am on my addiction and how it's ruining my life, I still can't stop.
    I'm not a porn addict, just a masturbation addict. My hormones are going crazy. Todday I jacked off, and then 10 minutes later, I jacked off again. Both had orgasms.
    I don't want to be someone that does that kind of stuff because it's not what I need. It's nothing to be proud of, therefore in my mind it's shameful. However,
    recently I've noticed that everyone masturbates. It's natural, and normal. Also, I've learned that just because something is normal, doesn't mean someone should do it.
    It's the human nature to masturbate, but is there a way to stop? I don't think so. But if I do find a way to stop I will. For now, I'm addicted, and it's affecting
    my hobbies such as dancing, videogames, etc. One thing it has not affected was music.
     
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    I've been masturbating 4-6 times a day for quite a while and now lately I find I have trouble getting it up and also I have quite a low sex drive now. Sometimes I force myself to beat off while I'm only at half mast. :(
     
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    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    i fucked my girlfriend this morning and then masturbated to orgasm 3 more times during the day. :dunno:

    then again, i may not touch it again for a few days. i go in odd spurts like that.
     
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    What's your point? As much as I love doing it, I feel like shit after I do it.
     
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    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    seems that most of us in here don't have guilt issues with sex/sexuality.

    try asking in the asylum.
     
  14. busydoingnothing

    busydoingnothing A broken man too tough to cry

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    How old are you? What do you use as masturbation material? What was your upbringing like in regards to sexuality?
     
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    if you really want to stop, and really cant just keep your pants on, get a chastity harness?
     
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    SQLee The OTer That Cares™

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    What about after you have sex or fool around? If not, then the obvious answer is to stop doing it yourself, and leave it up to other people.
     
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    Can you at least give us some sort of frame for WHY you feel bad? What makes you see it as a negative thing? It can't possibly be taking more than an hour out of your day.
    Its like anything else you enjoy in life. Like, apparently, dance. You don't HAVE to dance, it probably stops you from doing other things, but its something you enjoy, that doesn't hurt anyone, and that makes you feel good.
     
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    SiegG The real-life Dale Gribble

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    You need to embrace it......it's natural and beneficial.
     
  19. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    but WHY Do you feel like shit? Do you feel shameful for touching your genitals? Were you taught when you were young that it was wrong? I don't get why you shou;d feel guilty for just servicing yourself.
     
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    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    examples of how it effects your hobbies?
     
  21. Why

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    My parents never talked to me about it. I don't know why I feel that way
     
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    How can once a week interrupt your other activities, unless of course you do it on a countinous basis and call that once a week?
     
  23. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    if it really bugs you, get a therapist. You just have to get over it. I don't see how once a week can mess up your life too much.
     
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    i guess im good than
     
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    check out Jackinworld.com it has some stuff on this. Basically to the effect that this happens to a lot of people
     
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