Masturbation, how do you greatly reduce it.

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  1. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    I have come to the conclusion that masturbation could be a very annoying thing. For the reason that it wastes time and more importantly, energy and attention.

    You might have noticed once you do it, you no longer have the desire to do anything else and when you dont, you are more aware of everything and interested on doing a lot of things.

    The other problem could be porn which is a very annoying thing.

    So, tips to reduce this terrible habit?
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    teep New Member

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    seriously? you're a guy right? what are you doing that it takes away a noticeable amount of time and attention? if you feel like it just crank one out and go about your day. you don't have to light candles and put on a dido cd and make an evening of it.
     
  4. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    yeah, willpower or cutting off you hands or removing your testicles

    willpower is the best approach

    Or just rub one off before you go to sleep
     
  5. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    Get your missus to do it for you :big grin:
     
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    dido cd... :rofl:
     
  7. Ford4Life

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    I don't see why it's a "terrible habit". Unless you have a woman who will literally have sex with you anytime, any place, 24/7 365 days a year, you'll want to jerk one out once and awhile.

    If you aren't having regular sex, and you don't jerk off, be prepared to last about 15 seconds when you finally have sex again.
     
  8. forgotmyname

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    The longest masturbation I've held was about one hour. :o

    That was rising it up without reaching climax on purpose.
     
  9. Spaceering

    Spaceering I bite.

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    get a job that requires more energy then you have. suddenly about a week or two later, you will realize that it has been that long, or maybe the random sticky pants will be a reminder.


    if you have too much time and a lot of porn, then good luck with will power-or defying nature for that matter. will power wont last forever.
     
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    I dont know about that, ill rip one out then go about my buisness, somtimes ill do it then go work on the car right afterwards or something.
     
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    lol. this has got to be trolling
     
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    Get a girlfriend and have sex.
     
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    willpower
    find things to do in your spare time so everytime you think about doing it you have something to distract you
     
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  17. MattThom01

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    i see where he's coming from though. If you wack it once or twice a day, your drive and desire to go out and meet/find women goes way down. You just don't get as horny.
     
  18. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    What? Of all the words to use... "annoying"? Is eating annoying to you? Is breathing?

    If you think it is a waste of time, then why are you doing it in the first place? Obviously you have a need of some sort, whether it is psychological or physical. If it is physical, then I hardly see it as a waste of time because if you deny yourself a physical need, there are likely to be worse consequences than taking a 20 minute break from your day. If you can't spare 20 minutes from your day to make yourself feel good, then I would wonder what that is all about. If it takes you longer than 20 minutes a day, then the problem isn't masterbation, but what you're doing to masterbate. Surfing for porn != masterbation. If, on the other hand, you don't have a physical need and you are just compulsively doing it, then that is something you should address.

    Not having the desire to do anything else when you masterbate? I'm sorry, but I absolutely cannot relate to this. I don't even know what you mean by that. I enjoy life more when I've taken time to masterbate. I don't become a vegetable or lose my motivation because I've momentarily satisfied my sexual urges. Alternately, my life doesn't suddenly take on new meaning when I neglect my sexual needs. Sounds to me like you've got some issues with masterbation that go deeper than the surface.
     
  19. Simple

    Simple Sexy Beatch

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    is it taking over yourl ife? i try and clean the pipes once every day or two days
     
  20. teep

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    really? that's interesting. I could whack it 10 times right now, but that won't at all effect my desire to meet girls. your hand is a poor substitute for a real girl physically, emotionally, etc.
     
  21. Havsie

    Havsie When I die, bury me inside the Pepsi 1893 store OT Supporter

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    Report back to us in a month
     
  23. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :werd: I'm with you. Pure sexual stimulation is like water and physical intimacy is like food. No matter how much water I drink, I still need to eat. Most it can do is momentarily fill me up. Doesn't fill the need though.
     
  24. teep

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    what's in a month?
     
  25. Alexqzilla

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    Test your hypothesis brah
     

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