Married guys w/kids and sex..?

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Guvnor, Jan 25, 2010.

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Sex?

Poll closed Feb 9, 2010.
  1. Once a week

    5 vote(s)
    13.5%
  2. Twice a week

    6 vote(s)
    16.2%
  3. Three times a week

    7 vote(s)
    18.9%
  4. Hardly ever

    14 vote(s)
    37.8%
  5. She wants more than I can give her

    5 vote(s)
    13.5%
  1. Guvnor

    Guvnor NYM3 and Me

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    What's the sex frequency you're seeing with the wife? I'm pleasantly surprised.
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    So she didn't go through with cheating on you I see, :bigthumb:
     
  3. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    It depends on how old the children are and what stage they are at. When they were younger it was easy. Because they simply slept and ate we didn't have too much stress other than an hour a day or so of the witching hour. Sex was at least once a week if not more. When i met my husband my first born was 8 months old and we did it like 4 times a day. It was awesome.

    Now they are older and into more stuff it gets a lot harder. They fight a lot, they are demanding and they just seem to niggle. Our children are 9, 3, & 2 and I am guessing about once a month? Maybe less
     
  4. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    might want to remake the polling options


    once a season
    once a month
    once a week
    i won the fucking lottery bitches
     
  5. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    So far this thread is ridiculously depressing.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Further proof that kids ruin everything

    and spare us the "kids enrich your lives" horseshit, you child-crazy people :squint:
     
  7. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I think I'm with you on this one, beer. I always think I'd love to have kids one day, but the reality of it is just so unappealing on so many levels. I can't imagine ever being at a point where having sex once a month would be enough for me.
     
  8. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    I know as they get older we will get back into it more. Based on that giving up a bit of sex isn't a big deal to get the awesome kids we have :)
     
  9. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Well I guess that's partially my own baggage too. I've spent most of my life trying to be okay with having less sex due to the women I've dated and I've just now gotten to a place where I'm done trying to compromise my sexual needs.
     
  10. NCS

    NCS Active Member

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    werd
     
  11. antihero

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    2nded. what a depressing thread.
     
  12. Ritley

    Ritley New Member

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    Kids themselves don't ruin it. The parents let it be ruined.
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Umm, no. Kids ruin parent's life, parents just ruin the kids.
     
  14. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    just_another_on New Member

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  16. peoplescar

    peoplescar Guest

    i just want to see the results.
     
  17. XaPU!M

    XaPU!M Active Member

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    Click "View Poll Results" Under the poll
     
  18. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :rofl: shit, beat me to it
     
  19. Toxica

    Toxica New Member

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    Well if you have just one kid then it really isn't that bad.

    I still have plenty of sex and I have a daughter lol.
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I wish there was a cut off to how many kids people were allowed to have. I think 1 is plenty.
     
  21. ...stimpy

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    Kids have nothing to do with it, our door closes and has a lock. A few years ago I actually kept track, marked it on a calendar. It was 3 times a week, so far this year it's closer to 1 or 2 ... but that has nothing to do with the kids as far as I can tell.

    I know people that say "once a month" ... I know people that say their kids sleep with them ... it's a matter of priorities that we each decide.

    Don't blame the kids, 'cause that's pure shit.
     
  22. peoplescar

    peoplescar Guest

    damn, makes me wonder why people put "i just want to see the results" as a poll option.
     
  23. Thelonius

    Thelonius New Member

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    Yep, fuck having kids.
     
  24. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Because people are lazy and will pick a poll option that doesn't actually apply to them just to keep from having to 'view poll results' every time they check the thread.
     
  25. edward_cullen

    edward_cullen Unemployed Since 08

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    Not married but do have kids, and we go at it at least once a month, sometimes two, but rarely ever three.

    Before the baby, 3-4 times a week.. :mamoru:
     

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