I'm 21 with a married friend who happens to be a chick, she's 23. She has a one year old boy and for some reason, I'm the only one she trusts enough to tell anything to. We were just hanging out one day and all of a sudden she broke down and started telling me all sorts of things about her and her husband. He threatened to leave her when she was pregnant more that once, stopped wearing his wedding band on more than one occasion. Called her a bad mother. Moved out on one occasion. He's in the army and missed the first year of his child's life due to deployment (the child's whole life thus far basically). While she was pregnant and almost due, he volunteered for a stateside deployment for flood relief and left her alone. He flirted with another girl on the very night of their wedding. She says the only reasone she is still with him is because of the child and she thinks it wouldn't be fair to him and the kid if she wanted a divorce. Countless other little things that I can't think of right now. I was over at their house for a super bowl party and witnessed first hand how much he treats her like shit. I've told her multiple times that I'm in no situation to give her advice but she just keeps coming to me to vent and I feel like I need to tell her something. I guess I'm just lost and turning to you all for advice on what to do. I'd feel like an ass if I just stopped talking to her, because I get the sense she really needs someone atm. If you were in her situation, what would you do? I'm a little drunk right now and I'll answer any questions in the morning.