Does anyone know an up-to-date list of states that recognize same sex marriage or, civil unions? my bf and i are planning on moving out of tennessee in may, and we want to move to a state where we can get civil unioned, lol. we're also looking into adopting a child in the next few years. so far, i've found Massachusetts, Vermont, Oregon starting 1/08, new jersey i believe also. thats all i can find. sucks i have to move my life 1000 miles away to marry my partner, but, oh well, lol.