Please bear with me. Cliffs at bottom of post. I've only been married for about 6 months. About a month ago, the wife caught me looking at another woman at the grocery store. She started to cry because she caught me, and I really couldn't say anything at the time. I wound up going to a baseball game with a friend since she didn't feel like going anymore. So later on that night, she starts snooping around my PC and finds some random porn links on my history. Of course, some of the links originate from here... She goes ballistic, saying that she can't trust me and wants a divorce, because me looking at another woman leads to cheating. After a week or so of living on thin ice, I finally let her have it that I can't be perfect to her... and she seems to accept it, but says she still can't trust me. She goes out of town a lot, and always is at work. Not once do I question her motive when she does this. Cut to tuesday. I got invited to go to the World Series game by a friend of mine, for free. Can't go wrong with that, right? Well, the invite occurred at the last minute (5pm CST, game started at 7). So I had to finish what I was doing at work, go home and pick up after myself from changing out the spark plugs on my car that same morning, and make sure everything was fine. Once I got to the ballpark, I tried to call her to tell her I was actually going to a World Series game! Bad signal... so I tried to call someone else to see if things were working right - no go. I guess something was up - Cingular sucks, btw. So I attempt to call her later... no go. Keep doing this between innings, then finally reached her at 10pm. I tell her where I am at, and she says, "What the fuck are you doing at the game?" Huh?!?! I told her that my friend invited me at the last minute, and she's like, how come you didn't call me? I told her I couldn't reach her, so she said call her when I'm at home. Well, as most of you may know, the game went 14 innings and I didn't leave the ballpark until like 1am. Apparently, I had to tell her BEFOREHAND... but I couldn't do that because everything was so last minute, but tried to call her the first chance I got. She calls me once the ballgame is over, and starts ripping into me. Like huh? I don't quite understand, as I didn't get to eat dinner, I'm tired, the home team lost, it's cold, and I'm trying to find my car while avoiding traffic. I try calling her again when I get home, but she's hanging up on me. Didn't reach her yesterday because I went to the hospital to spend the night with my Grandmother, who's going through chemo. So this morning, I get an e-mail - she's considering filing for divorce. Now she's a type of person who thinks negatively from the getgo... and tends to overreact badly to things. But I'm tired of this fucking talk. While I do love her to death, she doesn't seem that way - I guess she seems that me going to the game signifies me having fun without her - while she's in another town doing work. It may go back to the trust issue. But I'm tired of the divorce threats... I don't know what to do anymore. Advice would be helpful. Cliffs: Wife caught me looking at another woman, then found porn later that night. Hilarity ensues, situation defused. A few days ago - Went to World Series game, didn't call her until extra innings, she's mad - threatens divorce.