Males: Anybody here over confident to the point they get cocky?

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  1. Jonari

    Jonari Well-Known Member

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    I get told this by some of my friends and another OT OP here :)mamoru:). Not trying to be a dick, but do you males ever cross the line between confidence/cocky or you can keep yourself confident without being too cocky.
     
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    I'm extremely cocky but I think I have the right to be that way. :rofl:
     
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    The difference between being confident and cocky is self-pride. If you act like your shit doesn't stink then you are cocky. If you're content with who you are and what your doing and where you're going then you're confident.
     
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    I get a little cocky every now and again.

    But most of the time, I'm finding that I have this slow, deep, resonant confidence welling up in me.

    And sometimes it just isn't there...at all.

    And I'm starting to think that is normal, which makes me more confident more of the time than not.
     
  5. Jonari

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    why?
     
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    I've been called cocky, but it's usually in the context of "you're so cocky, I love it" or something similar. never really in a douchey way.
     
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    I'm very confident, but over confidence that dives into cockiness is a major turn off to most women.
     
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    :bowrofl:

    I think he was making a joke.
     
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    moreso when i was younger, but i was over-compensating. tried to make it known that i was confident, if that makes any sense.


    nowadays, when i get called cocky it's because i'm being playful or because i don't react. what i mean by that, is that someone questions or challenges me in an arena where i know i'll win or i am right, but i don't puff out my chest or anything. i just smile and let things play out.
     
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    Not cocky. But because I used to be pretty quiet and keep to myself, many thought I was a snob. Sometimes you can't win, eh?
     
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    Cuz he's cocky :coolugh:
     
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    no, i wasn't.
     
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    To the original question: only accidentally.


    @Timberwolf: same here. I have had SO MANY PEOPLE tell me "dude, i thought you were the biggest elitist prick in the world before I got to know you."

    I'm like "sorry i'm not a super smiley cheerleader all the time." :squint:
     
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    sometimes
     
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    I'm told on a weekly basis that I'm the cockiest SOB people have ever met. But it's usually my friends or family telling me this.

    Runs in my family though :o
     
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    Can you elaborate further please? Im interested in what "elite" means?

    Are you referring to physical appearance? Intelligence? Income? etc?
     
  19. saosko

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    He thinks his shat don't stink :rolleyes:
     
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    Basically I'm fucking awesome.
     
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    It doesn't.
     
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    No one is perfectly humble, man, not even Moses. If you have any confidence in yourself, you're gonna come off cocky sometimes. So long as you aren't always a cocky bastard, it doesn't really matter.
     
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    So you're joking, right?
     
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    GT is so elite he has it tattooed on his chest.
     
  25. saosko

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    If he got it tattooed, that would be just :greddy:
     

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