I recently started talking to a guy that I used to work with. We started talking right after I left my former employer for a new job. They wouldn't pay me more and he actually fought to keep me there. Pushed to get me a raise...even argued with my boss to the point she wouldn't talk to him for a couple weeks. I had never considered the thought of dating him until I saw how hard he tried to keep me there. We used to talk on a rare occassion about things going on in his relationship. About 3-4 weeks before I left they ended up breaking up. He showed me a lot of appreciation for everything I had done...He was genuinely disappointed that I was leaving. Thats when I started having feelings for him. After I left he asked me out a couple times. I talked to him after the second date and he said he doesn't want a relationship right now. He doesn't think he's ready for one and said that he doesn't know where he will be in 5 months after he graduates college. He could move away because there is nothing keeping him here... but he spends a lot of time with me. We kiss..and even though thats as far as I will let it go given the circumstances...he still calls me a lot, takes me out, spends time with me.... Lets me meet his friends... I don't know. I'm completely confused. I really care about him but he insists he won't want a serious relationship for awhile. I don't know whether to keep seeing him or turn away.