Making sex interesting (for a girl)

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by hyper, Oct 14, 2008.

  1. hyper

    hyper Member

    Joined:
    Aug 15, 2004
    Messages:
    199
    Likes Received:
    0
    I'm in the situation where my girlfriend would like to have better sex with me then I'm currently able, I'm rather inexperienced compared to her. She is perfectly ok with it cause she says shes happy with the relationship. I just wish I could do somethings to make the sex better for her. Any suggestions on where to start to make the sex more interesting.
     
  2. Vysion

    Vysion New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 30, 2003
    Messages:
    4,729
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Twin Cities, MN
    How do you know you're inexperienced compared to her?


    Lay some pipe... just be aggressive like a wild animal. Don't hurt her, but let her feel that you're there... :naughty:
     
  3. hyper

    hyper Member

    Joined:
    Aug 15, 2004
    Messages:
    199
    Likes Received:
    0
    Like I've only had a handful of partners ;) shes a fair amount older then me. As far as the toys what in the line are you thinking?
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

    Joined:
    Sep 1, 2006
    Messages:
    32,592
    Likes Received:
    5
    How about ask her what she would like?
     
  5. Vysion

    Vysion New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 30, 2003
    Messages:
    4,729
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Twin Cities, MN
    How much older? If she's an experienced older woman, and you're a young guy, just let her show you the ropes. Older women know what they want/like anyways. She'll just train you into her love machine... :x:
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

    Joined:
    Sep 1, 2006
    Messages:
    32,592
    Likes Received:
    5
    :mamoru: I guess I more am curious as to what he thinks about their sex is boring. Has she said something or is he just worried? Do they use a lot of positions? Has she said anything or alluded to something she would like in the bedroom? etc.
     
  7. chlywly

    chlywly Active Member

    Joined:
    Dec 15, 2000
    Messages:
    18,745
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Toronto
    Umm, your best bet would be to ASK HER, what you could do to make it better for her...... This should be common sense. People have different desired and styles you need to find out what she enjoys specifically.
     
  8. hyper

    hyper Member

    Joined:
    Aug 15, 2004
    Messages:
    199
    Likes Received:
    0
    Shes alluded to it a few times, partially shes worried I'm not enjoying it to much (I just really don't have high expectations LOL ) . Shes told me that shes taught other boys to eat her, but she felt I don't like it so she doesn't want to show me. I get the feeling she likes me a lot so she isn't being very forthcoming in forcing the issue.
     
  9. Vysion

    Vysion New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 30, 2003
    Messages:
    4,729
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Twin Cities, MN
    :eek4:

    What are your ages?
     
  10. giz

    giz Active Member

    Joined:
    Nov 25, 2004
    Messages:
    15,634
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    salt lake
    I can think of worse situations to be in :rofl:
     
  11. hyper

    hyper Member

    Joined:
    Aug 15, 2004
    Messages:
    199
    Likes Received:
    0
    25 and 35
     
  12. vodkacollins

    vodkacollins New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 2, 2008
    Messages:
    1,816
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    CdM, CA
    dont like doing it, or dont like being taught?
     
  13. Vysion

    Vysion New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 30, 2003
    Messages:
    4,729
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Twin Cities, MN
    Very nice... :cool: Just let her show you what she wants.

    How'd this hookup get started? Is it just pleasure or are you 2 serious about each other?
     
  14. Toda Party

    Toda Party .....

    Joined:
    Jan 6, 2002
    Messages:
    2,431
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    N.Y.
    Could it be that you're both not totally comfortable and open when it comes to sex? I don't think experience really has much to do with it. The best sex is when you're both on the same page.
     
  15. hyper

    hyper Member

    Joined:
    Aug 15, 2004
    Messages:
    199
    Likes Received:
    0
    This sounds like the most likely situation. We have been sleeping with each other for about 3 months, generally same 2-3 positions. It always gets a bit awkward when we start talking about what we like. Its weird cause we are both satisfied with relatively poor results and we are both wanting to make it better for the other but its just like always this weird awkward mess. We used to work with each other thats how we met, so we had a lot of time to build up a strong attraction.
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

    Joined:
    Sep 1, 2006
    Messages:
    32,592
    Likes Received:
    5
    2-3 positions? What a fucking snoozefest! Do you watch porn at all? Go watch some and try 5 new positions this week. Stop doing the same old same old, it gets old fast.
     
  17. GTLifter

    GTLifter Banned

    Joined:
    Feb 28, 2005
    Messages:
    62,453
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Durty Durty ATL Niggah
    when spooning or doggy style you can reach around a play with her clit...

    with missionary type positions don't just pound in and out but learn how to grind while going in and out...

    :dunno: works for me
     
  18. that about sums it up.
     
  19. uwofrost

    uwofrost New Denver Crew

    Joined:
    Nov 16, 2007
    Messages:
    1,223
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Greenwood Village
    here is one for both of you.

    have her lay flat on her stomach and you fuck her from behind. have her push her ass up a little so you can go for the reach around or she can manual herself . the plus for her is the clit rub, and you get a super tight pussy to fuck as she can flex her ass, legs, and pussy all at once to clinch on your dick. Feels fucking great.


    if you a fan of magic pull a Houdini
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

    Joined:
    Sep 1, 2006
    Messages:
    32,592
    Likes Received:
    5
    Did that last night :mamoru: :bigthumb:
     
  21. Toda Party

    Toda Party .....

    Joined:
    Jan 6, 2002
    Messages:
    2,431
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    N.Y.
    As others have said, switch positions. But even then, thats just basic stuff and will only take you so far. It really comes down to what turns both of you on. Start with yourself... think about it. What do YOU like? What turns YOU on? You don't have to discuss it beforehand... introduce whatever it is while things are happening. Take the lead and she will follow. When she sees that you're being open about what you like, she will(hopefully) do the same, and thats when great sex happens.
     
  22. XxvODvxX

    XxvODvxX New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 25, 2007
    Messages:
    971
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Northern NJ
    You got the Houdini? Thats Awesome! :mamoru:

    Side note, that is one of my favorite positions too.. i'm always like :eek3: upon entering my g/f
     
  23. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

    Joined:
    Sep 1, 2006
    Messages:
    32,592
    Likes Received:
    5
    No no, the position :rofl:
     
  24. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Feb 2, 2004
    Messages:
    23,699
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    NoVA
    This was my first reaction as well. Communication is the foundation of a good sex life. Add energetic willingness to that and you're pretty much set.
     
  25. uwofrost

    uwofrost New Denver Crew

    Joined:
    Nov 16, 2007
    Messages:
    1,223
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Greenwood Village
    Who is Vag's Sexpert?
     

Share This Page