making love?

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  1. NCS

    NCS Active Member

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    is it a bad idea to say "making love" (i.e. "when we were making love the other night") in a relationship where you don't say "i love you" ?
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    If I was in a relationship where "I love you" hadn't been said I would be totally weirded out by saying something like "let's make love."

    Then again, I can't stand that phrase now and I am in love.
     
  3. fray

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    yes. it's weird.
     
  4. BadKat

    BadKat GIVE ME WINE!!

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    Ugh, my guy says that and it kind of drives me batty. We don't say "I love you" but if he's getting ready to leave my place and we didn't fool around or anything he's made comments like "We're you hoping to make love?" which makes me want to claw his eyes out. Yes, I was thinking we'd have sex tonight, but that's fine if you weren't.

    For me, there's a HUGE difference between the following:

    Fucking = Hot sweaty, almost animalistic
    Making Love = Passionate, but slow, sensual, just enjoying every single moment and movement, every touch and sensation. Very Sensual.
    Having Sex = What most people do on average. It's a happy medium between fucking and making love.

    If I'm referring to getting it on, even if I mean fucking or making love, I always just say "sex" i.e. "yeah, so when K and I were having sex the other night, this funny thing happened". Just seems so much more natural.
     
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    RAWR!
     
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    vodkacollins New Member

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    why would "making love" even be used if "i love you" had not been said?
     
  7. BadKat

    BadKat GIVE ME WINE!!

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    :naughty: :wiggle: Sometimes you just gotta be all aggressive and nasty and freaky and goddamn....now I want some!
     
  8. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    I'll say it in a joking manner sometimes, but in the serious realm, I feel you need to say "I Love You" before you can say "Lets Make Love".

    You could always call it passionate sex :dunno:
     
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  10. Falconer

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    The girl in your av has a fantastic body/waist/hourglass.
     
  11. Vysion

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    That sounds better than "make love"...
     
  12. Ramataklan

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    thats simply true if you say it to your girlfriend
     
  13. Vysion

    Vysion New Member

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    No. You may not have some from me. :mamoru:
     
  14. tqpolo

    tqpolo ***** Platinum Member OT Supporter

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    The only times I ever used or heard "making love" were when we're trying to be funny.
     
  15. BadKat

    BadKat GIVE ME WINE!!

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    That's okay, I'm getting some later tonight anyway. At least, that's the plan on both parties parts, only glitch would be if work lasts longer than it's supposed to :hsd:
     
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    I don't think i've ever said it or had it said to me. I can't see it bugging me though.
     
  17. Falconer

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    Making........ whoopie!
     

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