I have joined a discussion seminar that focuses on "productive discomfort." In response to the wildly successful "Fem-Sex" seminar, my university is now doing an "M-Sex" seminar. It covers masculinity/male identity, sexuality, and related topics. No point to this post really, other than to say I wish everyone could have the option of being in such a seminar. DAMN is it uncomfortable though, for some people! Small-penis stories, drawings of ur own genitals, best sex, differences, similarities. Two girls are in the class too, it's not limited to males.