(the lulz is at the end if you wanna skip down there) I'm one of them but I've been training BJJ for a couple months now. In in the "play defense most of the time" phase. I only realize how much I've learned in such a short time when I show up to class and some 2nd or 3rd day white belts show up. Our instructor encourages us to show them something or teach them something rather than just beat them up and have them get discouraged. _lulz below_ Long story short, I was rolling with one of the new guys, bigger than I am. Somehow he winds up in side control but then he just lays there. Noob: "Are we stuck?" Me: "I'm waiting for you to move" After a brief pause... Noob: "What if I don't move?" Me: "Then I guess we are stuck and I'll have to think of something.