Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by chainsawbarbie, Jan 23, 2007.
Nothing feels as great as the perfect person.
the perfect person doesn't exist. if you believe someone is perfect you are deluded.
I think he/she was talking about the perfect person for him. Love is an awesome feeling
lol damn negative nancy....
Let the guy be happy!
^ Yeah, let him be happily delusional!
All in perception. My g/f is perfect for me. Not saying she is perfect. But she is made up of all the qualities I love and a few that I am learning to love. That is the point for me, her qualities that "seem" undesireable actually are part of what makes my Sue, Sue.
I dunno if that made any sense at all?! At least to ya'll!
Ah the I realized my SO is the best I can do and my SO realized I am the best they can do and we just happened to realize it at the same time
Sir, could you describe this feeling of this thing you call love?
makes perfect sense. true love is loving someone despite their flaws
can you explain what the color blue looks like?
I'd say it makes perfect sense and is what many of us are looking for (or holding on to if we've found it).
i get so tired of the same piece after awhile
"You come to love not by finding the perfect person,
but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly."
It's awesome while it lasts.
But I was just hoping to know what to look (feel?) out for.
yeah its probably up there with sneezing and a headshot
i had to laugh
you just know
Agreed. People become impassioned and beleive this person cannot have error.
The person may become bored knowing that they have this person by the balls.
Two mottos I live by: "Everything passes... everything." That means good and bad things, they all come to an end. And another "Never good enough", consistantly improving myself in any way shape or form big or small, publicly or in secret, so not only do other people not become bored with me, I will not become bored with myself.
I also never expose all my secrets. I prefer to be an inexaustable goldmine. Some people are open mines where you can go in any area of their brain, pick up a scoop and leave with the good. With me, you have to dig, and you won't hit the big one unless you are sticking around for a while.
It is, isn't it.
There are ways to keep it lasting practically forever. However it has a lot to do with self discovery and permanent changes in how you act moment to moment and how you respond to your partners stimulus that is key to it all.
And, of course, you must have a very good partner. I mean SOLID.
It sounds lovely, but it's rubbish. I have gone through life thinking every woman I'm interested in is perfect and it invariably ends in a moment of huge disappointment when i realise there's absolutely nothing special about her.
Hence my comment that when you ARE conscious of someone's flaws and it STILL makes no difference to how you feel about them, that's love.