So, generally, people who have experienced love at first site believe in it. Those who haven't just don't understand. I have. I was 18, so was he. We hung out for about a month. He was going through everything a person shouldn't have to go through, especially at eighteen. I got pregnant. Now, we are 35 and have a wonderful 16 year old daughter. We have been seeing each other for the past five years on and off. We took a year off and got back together around seven months ago. I know this sounds stoopid, but I really think things are different this time around. He says he's bipolar, not so sure cuz I never see the manic side. The question. Do you think it's possible to see someone for the first time and know they are the 80% for you (80% references, um, one of those Tyler Perry type movies I think it was Why Did I Get Married, never watched, love the concept.) Most of us can eliminate them as potentials at site for one reason or another. Has anyone just looked at someone and knew they would ultimately get along?