lost sex drive with girlfriend.

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  1. Brigante

    Brigante i'm a lurker without an avatar, deal with it

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    been with my girlfriend for 2 years. our sex life was very active for about a year and a half. i'd get very easily turned on by her and there'd be points where i'm just all over her when i wanted it. but i've noticed in recent months that my sex drive with her has pretty much gone downhill. i still find her physically attractive. i didn't find our sex life to be boring or bad. she's noticed and is concerned that i'm losing interest in her, which is not the case. i love this girl more than ever. it's just that when we're in bed, i want to either just chill, watch tv or go to sleep. whereas before i'd be all over her wantin to have sex. i'm sure i'm not the only one with this issue, so what are some suggestions, tips, advice or comments on my deal here. i want to have the sex drive that i used to have just a few months ago. thanks.

    cliffs: lost sex drive with girlfriend. what do i do?
     
  2. prolifics

    prolifics New Member

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    how much weight has she gained
     
  3. Pringles

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    you have to spice it up. Your bored with kiss, pump, blow, sleep. You gotta make it interesting so you lust for it.
     
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    she's too available. she needs to learn how to make you work for it.
     
  5. Abomb

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    omfg

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    same shit happened with one of my exes. she started putting on a couple of pounds here, a couple of pounds there and ALL i ever wanted from her was a blowjob. no intercourse, ever once the pounds started adding on.
     
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    drink bleach
     
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  9. Brigante

    Brigante i'm a lurker without an avatar, deal with it

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    she hasn't gained any weight. she actually lost some weight.
     
  10. captainstan

    captainstan this is horse cock in tiny mouth

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    I actually had this problem to. Granted i was on anti depressants that may have actually been the cause for it. We still had sex every now and then but it was just one of those cases where it just didnt seem interesting. It could be a matter of stress, or if your on any sort of meds it might be that. could also be just a time where its just not as appealing. Me personally, that phase lasted for almost a year with my gf and i would say that probably within the last 3 or 4 months we are pretty much back to normal. Granted i do have different meds/ im not stressed out anymore.
     
  11. Abomb

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    the anti depressants fucked your libido up.
     
  12. natalie5445

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    1. Do something to mix it up. Make sex less available, more rare, more exciting.
     

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