lost my virginity

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  1. flowers

    flowers New Member

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    so i lost my virginity two days ago.i did not bleed but it hurt a lot. the next morning i had sex again and it hurt. but a little less.
    to see if it would hurt again i had sex for the third time and it did not feel good but hurt.

    now i am just slightly scared to have sex. Is it normal for it to hurt the third time?
     
  2. Mugen92GS-R

    Mugen92GS-R New Member

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    You probably just rushed it. Let yourself recover a few times before you guys have sex.
     
  3. althepirate

    althepirate Talk nerdy to me.

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    That's a lot of sex for a virgin to be having, especially if you're doing it as an experiment. Give it about a week to recuperate [it usually only takes me about a day or two to recoup after rough sex, but I've been having it for years now :o] before you try anything else.

    Is your partner getting you super worked up before you guys do it? It's best for you to be really turned on and I would consider lube if you're worried about being "wet enough."
     
  4. flowers

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    well i was not really into it but my aim was to see if it hurt or not. we did use a lot of lube though.
     
  5. KindlyCuddly

    KindlyCuddly Irina Lazareanu

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    There you go. You need to be turned on and not just leap into it.
     
  6. just tat

    just tat New Member

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    try lots and lots of foreplay first.
     
  7. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    no bleeding the 2nd and 3rd time either?
     
  8. flowers

    flowers New Member

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    No.
     
  9. AutoEuphoria

    AutoEuphoria New Member

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    Then was it worth it? That seems like a really dumb reason to lose your virginity (to see whether or not it would hurt).
     
  10. Mangina

    Mangina New Member

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    I remember way back, I took a girls virginity. she said it hurt the first 10 or so times. then she couldn't get enough. It should get better for you.
     
  11. stormywaters

    stormywaters Tornadoes are just wind...

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    I've had sex only about 7 or so times and it still hurts every time for me. (It could be because of the large amount of time in between each time) Just take it slow and like everyone else said, lots of lube and foreplay. You ARE normal :)
     
  12. TornadoCreator

    TornadoCreator New Member

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    It hurt for my first girlfriend for the first 10 or so times as well, but then she was always very tight and without meaning to be big headed I'm not a small guy downstairs.

    It will get better in time.
     
  13. chlywly

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    You were not really into it........ that is why it hurt... End of discussion.
     
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    need more details on why you did this....
     
  15. uwofrost

    uwofrost New Denver Crew

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    You need to have a day or 2 between for recovery
     
  16. flowers

    flowers New Member

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    i did not loose it the first time to see if it would hurt or not. doh.
    it was the second time the guy really wanted to do it and i well went along with the flow just to see again how it would feel.
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    First of all...don't have sex unless you actually want to. Considering you wrote this
    and how you "weren't into it" it sounds like you just fucking lied there for the "experiment" :ugh:

    Of course it can hurt the first few times, you're putting a hard object into a small space. Eventually it won't hurt but for fucks sake, have actual foreplay so maybe you will get into it, otherwise you just letting him put it in for his sake is kind of sad.
     
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    How old are you?
     
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    you're doing it wrong

    :)
     
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    EDIT: when i was a virgin and i took my girlfriends virginity, the first time hurt her...the second was better, the third and forth i was doing it wrong again and it hurt her, then it was good from there on out, the first four times were all within a week...
     
  23. BATMANs

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    I assume the guy was cut.

    where is the pain?
     
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  25. phish

    phish hockey crew

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    you've been de-flowered :mamoru:
     

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