Lost My Drive?

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  1. MP525i

    MP525i New Member

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    hey guys,

    a lot of good advice has been given on here so i thought this would be a good place to ask.

    just wondering how to get back my sex drive.

    i mean, over the past 2 weeks, i've just had no desire to have sex or get aroused. it's weird because i used to think about it all the time and i just don't think about it during the day.

    i should feel weird about it, but i don't. i dunno.

    work is the same, g/f is the same.... i haven't told her this btw... but it's been two weeks and it hasn't even felt that long.

    any help would be appreciated.

    thanks.
     
  2. low20

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    diet and excersice go downhill in the past 2 weeks? sometimes that changes it...i donno, seems odd..whats your age?
     
  3. MP525i

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    no drop in exercise.. if anything i've bumped it up. more toning instead of lifting harder.

    i'm 24.

    diet is the same too.

    i'm stumped.
     
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    Roadkill_ak_47 Support your local Pirate

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    what about stress, preoccupied with somthing else, time, or you could even just be on break :dunno:
     
  5. MP525i

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    i have taken on more at work, but i don't "feel" my stress level has increased.

    i just know i should be kickin' myself in the rear for feeling like this. is there anything i can eat/do that would give me a kick?

    i don't mean to make this out to be an emo thread or any shit like that, but i'm a little worried that i may never regain my drive-so to speak.
     
  6. Jennipher

    Jennipher Dontcha know OT Supporter

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    are you having trouble getting aroused only when it comes to sex with your GF or are you not masturbating either?
     
  7. MP525i

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    sex with the g/f, mastb. everything.. just more interested in getting other stuff done.

    it's like i'm turning into a chick... no offense to any ladies.

    i did talk to my g/f about it and she said she would do anything to help me out and make me feel better. she said that sometimes she goes weeks without wanting it either. which of course got my paranoid side thinking that if she doesn't want it then why would she agree to have sex in the past?

    does this make any sense to anyone?

    i know, all these details are overwhelming....

    sorry if it's like pulling teeth here everyone. it's just i don't know why i feel like this and it's hard figuring out what i actually feel. i just have low urge for sex and more of an urge to do other stuff in my life.

    i know this place is very helpful in it's answers, so please hang in there with me.
     
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    Roadkill_ak_47 Support your local Pirate

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    i know when i had no job/ any thing to do i wanted it all the time, the more on your plate the less you want it, my opinion is that your extra work time is getting in the way, im sure your fine i've been jobless a few times and the same thing happens

    my g/f says that to " i havent felt like doing stuff for a while", then im thinkin well y didt you say somthin or not get into it.., i think the girl must do it couse we want it/ wants to make us happy witch is cool i guess but i'd also prefer that she's into it too.

    i've been in your position and i suggest, time alone for you and subject yourself to porn or hanging out with the g/f but not allowed to touch that drives me nuts but can be fun for her, teasing you

    basicly have some time to relax w your girl, dont jump to the sex, romance her or vic~versa, and dont go at it till you cant bare any more :naughty: spend like a good 2+ but try to kutt it under 3 unless yall er havin funn hours toying around
     
  9. jdm-cd5

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    Do you have trouble getting aroused when you think of females? This is a major sign for gay males that first discover that they are in fact, homosexual. I would seek professional help with bringing your homoerotic fantasies out and be open about your sexual preferance.

    Goodluck and keep us posted
     
  10. MP525i

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    that's some good advice.. when we (g/f and i) find some time, i guess we can try that out.

    well i know i'm not homosexual. i love my g/f very much.
     
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    i wouldn't worry about it too much...some times i'm not in the mood for sex. it happens to everyone
     

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