loss of sex drive?

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  1. Jay487

    Jay487 What's Life If You Ain't Enjoyin' It?

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    so I recently loss my virginity to this girl. we've been hanging out pretty much every day for almost 3 weeks since then. she just got out of a relationship and isnt looking to start another one right away, which she made clear from day 1. unfortunately shes awesome and i really like her.

    anyways, i used to have to urge to masturbate almost every other day at least. ever since weve had sex, its almost like i lost the urge to cum. its been over a week since we last have, and normally Id probably be going nuts but im not. Dont get me wrong, if were fooling around ill get aroused and want to have sex, but otherwise, its like i could care less. once in awhile i will be naturally and randomly horny but nothing like before.

    i have no desire to watch porn either.

    are my emotions just getting the best of me? what the hells going on here :noes:
     
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  2. BiG_aL

    BiG_aL New Member

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    hmmm, ever since I've started having sex, I rarely watch porn. Dunno why, I guess all my drive goes into actual sex.
    Can't tell you why, but I guess I'm in the same boat.
     
  3. stolid_agnostic

    stolid_agnostic One who is both stolid and agnostic. Get a diction

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    yeah masturbation for a lot of people is used when there is nobody available

    when I'm in a relationship, I almost never jack off and go for a week or more without cumming and not notice it because I am excited to have those moments of closeness

    when I am not in a relationship, I'll do it 3 times a day

    I wouldn't worry about it, just have fun!
     
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    DTR rex New Member

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    You watch less porn and masterbate less because now you are getting sex... It's quite normal.

    As for your actual sex drive, it can be affected by things such as diet/exercise/sleep habits. Have a solid diet, do moderate exercise, and get decent sleep and it will probably go up.
     
  5. jones21

    jones21 Uranium Member

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    pitch this for the 40 year old virgin sequel
     
  6. Gibles

    Gibles the funny thing about my back is....

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    for some reason I watch less porn when I'm not in a relationship :ugh:
     

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