Looking for your opinion on breakup

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  1. schrinediggity

    schrinediggity New Member

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    So my girlfriend and i broke up in january becuase it wasn't the right time in her life for a bf, she is as senior in hs, i'm in college, but we continued acting like boyfriend and girlfriend until March. I made a comment to one of my buddies that we were broken up but still sleeping together. Anyways since she got wind of that comment she has been a different girl. She just told me about a week ago that she still doesn't want a bf (which i told her she had to decide if she wanted to be together or not). She told me she has too much going on for a bf but still wants to be friends with benefits and still really likes me. Anyways I know it goes against traditional male beliefs, but I'm not just going to fuck around with her knowing we aren't together cuz I don't know who else she is fucking around with lol. So I wrote her a 1/2 page letter telling her goodbye. I have two questions, From a male or female prespective, what were her real reasons for breaking up? And secondly, is it wrong to say goodbye to someone in a letter?
     
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    k0in b4hd New Member

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    at this point, all you can hope for is that you are banging more people than she is, because if youre not, shes winning
     
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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    The letter part is kind of pathetic, you should have at least talked things out with her in person.
     
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    schrinediggity New Member

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    I asked her to talk in person, she said she would. Then almost two weeks went by and I hadn't heard from her, so I said my goodbye's.
     
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    Ha don't worry about me, i'm not worried about who she is sleeping with, at this point I could care less, I was just curious if any of you guys would have bought her "too busy" story. And it sounds like I was right to assume she was lying.
     
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    you should have kept taggin it. no worries in that. it's not like you guys were getting married.
     
  8. WeRdToYoMoThA

    WeRdToYoMoThA Girlies on Standby, Waiting to say Hi

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    the end of senior year is never a busy time :o
     
  9. schrinediggity

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    Ya thats what i thought, but honestly, she wasn't the greatest in bed, and by some of her past discressions, i didn't want to be fucking her well someone else was too. I'm assuming of course there is a someone else
     
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    HAHA exactly my thoughts. I know she had alot of homework for her business class. And she works m,w,th,f from 4-8, and during the day saturday. She wonders why i don't believe her BS lol.
     
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    you're a better man than me.

    I woulda kept hittin her, and then her friends later down the road.

    Shes a high school girl. They are all fucked up. She probably realizes shes going to be in college in a few months, and meet new people. Its better to save her sanity, and get rid of you now, than in a few months.

    You're in college. Go for college girls. Specifically, Community College girls.
     
  12. schrinediggity

    schrinediggity New Member

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    haha thanks, she only has 1 hot friend and its my buddies gf lol. The rest of them I don't find attractive.

    Ya thats what I figure, i gotta stop going for the younger girls lol, not quite mature enough to handle a relationship.

    For sure man, community college girls are freaks.
     
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    they are huge sluts.
     

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