Looking for ideas on how to approach a girl in one of my classes

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  1. SolidRanger

    SolidRanger New Member

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    OK as some of you probably have guessed from my threads I am pretty much socially retarded as you can come. It's been a few years since I've so much as kissed a girl, gotten laid, or even had a girl express any interest in me.

    Well the semester started and there's a chick who's giving me the eye in one of my classes. Looking at me and smiling and shit for a few days now. Trying to think of a decent way to approach her without coming off as a total fucking loser.

    She was wearing a shirt for a band I love so that's alteast something we have in common but I just can't imagine approaching a stranger and telling her that I love that band too. It's a big class too, so almost no chance contact whatsoever. I'll have to do something myself, but I can't think of anything that doesn't come off as creepy.

    Any ideas?
     
  2. Scythe

    Scythe Guest

    Go up to her, sit down, and say "hey how's it going".
     
  3. SolidRanger

    SolidRanger New Member

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    Wouldn't that come off as creepy? It's a class of 150+ students. I sit in the same place everyday. She sits way on the other side of the room. It just seems like it would come off creepy as hell that I deliberately sat there to talk to her.
     
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    If you see her around make conversation "hey, don't you take blahblahblah?" then start talking about the class and go from there
     
  5. SolidRanger

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    Well I don't spend alot of time on campus as I live off campus. Plus this is a big school (20,000 students) so that might not be the best idea. Would probably take to long to run into her and I'd lose my window.
     
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    Oooookay, then after class bring up the shirt thing it really wouldn't creep me out if I was her. It's all about the vibe you give off, if you're relaxed and laid back she won't find it weird.
     
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    "I like your shirt. Do you like/listen to [band]?". Continue on convo about band, merge into other bands, invite to band related event, get married, have babies, happily ever after.
     
  8. polishillusion

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    How about you go and socialize more and not worry so much about one particular woman?
     
  9. SolidRanger

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    Believe me, if more women were giving me attention I'd be socializing with them, but this is the best sign I've gotten from a woman in like 3 years so I'm atleast gonna give it a shot.
     
  10. edward_cullen

    edward_cullen Unemployed Since 08

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    Like another poster here said, just approach, give a genuine smile and say "hey how's it going", either during class, or after, and follow it up with an introduction, your name, and then from there you can talk about whatever, best bet would be the band shirt she had on because it's something you have in common and easy to work off of, then from there go into other things..

    Don't mention anything about her vagoo or breastrious or look in that direction and you won't come off as a creep.
     
  11. SolidRanger

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    I may be a social retard, but I'm not THAT bad
     
  12. Sr20magik

    Sr20magik OT Supporter

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    Dude you're thinking about this way to much. Like everyone is saying just approach her and ask her about the shirt.
     
  13. SolidRanger

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    I just don't want people to think I'm some creepy weirdo
     
  14. Guvnor

    Guvnor NYM3 and Me

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    Approach
    hi, i'm john doe
    She'll say hi john i'm jane
    nice to meet you jane
    Hey Jane, i'd like to take you to lunch
    well, i'm...I....see..
    C'mon...you gotta eat..plus i'm good company..how's thurs?
    Okkkkkkkkkkk
    Cool, what's your num
    store it.
    then say...well, I dont wanna hold you. I'll send you a text later. Good meeting you.

    Later that day....send a text...hey it's john...how's your day going? Eventually call her and just ask questions. I did this next move and I think it's what got me laid quick. I asked the chic what kinda dessert she like. She told me she loved banana splits....I sent a text with this pic or one similar saying something like here I hope this holds you over until I can get you the real thing.
    [​IMG]

    Yeah yeah...chics dig that gay shit. Just be assertive and confident. None of that ahhh, ummm shit. Look her in the eye and tell her what you feel. They want us to take control. :rofl::rofl:
     
  15. Sr20magik

    Sr20magik OT Supporter

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    Whats so creepy about asking her if she's into the band on her shirt or not? If you go to her with the feeling that your being creepy then more than likely your coming off as creepy. Just stop telling yoursrelf that your creepy.
     
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    :rofl::bigthumb:
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You're thinking too much like an anti-social guy.

    If in a huge classroom you've noticed a girl clearly looking at you and smiling she most likely wants you to come over. At the beginning of every semester I'd practically spend the whole first day scanning the room for guys I thought were hot so I could give them the eye. One in particular came late to class the next day and sat right next to me. Smart move on his part.

    Meeting chicks in college is so fucking easy. Ask for a pencil, ask about homework. You're in.
     
  18. _A_

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    Honestly, just go sit next to her and talk to her.

    You both are in the same class, you have something in common. Build off it.
     
  19. polishillusion

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    You have not had an interaction with a woman in 3 years and you are in COLLEGE?

    You come here posting to strangers about it?

    You reek of "I need therapy" to me.
     
  20. Guvnor

    Guvnor NYM3 and Me

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    Hey fella, you in there yet?
     
  21. SolidRanger

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    I've interacted with plenty of women, when I'm comfortable I'm actually very outgoing/funny. What I said was I haven't had a woman show any interest in me for 3 years. Granted this probably has alot to do with being overweight, but I've been working out and eating right and I've lost some weight, so maybe that's why I'm actually getting some attention again:hsughno:
     
  22. SolidRanger

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    Won't have a class with this chick until tomorrow
     
  23. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Punch her in the shoulder then tell her you'd leave her for a celebrity.
     
  24. SolidRanger

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    :rolleyes:
     
  25. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I swear to fucking God, I bet there are plenty of men that could pull that off.
     

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