So this has just been something on my mind since I have been LOLing at the thought of my ex and her actions. Ok so what I am wanting to know is what are the pros and cons of a LDR? My Ex is dateing a guy who is flying her out twice a month to see him. When she told me she replyed with you will have nothing positive to say. I told her good luck but in reality I am trying to figure out why anyone would want to do it. Only pros I can see is she can have what she believes to be commited relationship. This guy can have his own life and see his girls yet she could do the same thing. For now thats what looks like she is doing. Since she started going out with him she has locked herself at home all weekend. No friends no going out nothing. She chated on me and I am sure with lack of daily attention she will cheat on him. SO anyway what the pros and cons?