Hi, So my girlfriend of 2 years is in Japan. She's going there for school and she'll be back in like late July (she left in the beginning of Sept.). Absolutely everything was going fine until about two weeks ago. Now I completely trust her, and she's not the type to cheat on me, and I'm not the type to cheat on her. But she's met someone from our city (from Edmonton in Canada) in Japan, and he's on an exchange too, he's about 3 years older than her. Now, I didn't get a chance to talk to her all weekend, and I talked to her last night. She spent the entire weekend with this douchebag, drinking whatever, I wasn't really paying attention to what she told me they did, just the fact that it was just her and him. So to "reassure" me that she wouldn't cheat on me she fucking tells me about how he has a girlfriend in our city and how he's been dating her for two years, whatever, great. Puts my mind to rest, but then she tells me that he's in an open relationship with her. She says how he's after some random chick in Japan anyway and how he wouldn't go for her. So now I've spent the whole day fucking pissed out of my mind, I'm so fucking angry, I wish I could get to this guy and rip his fucking gonads out through his fucking mouth. I've said absolutely nothing to her, last night after I found this out, I became distant slightly and just kind of brushed it off as not having enough sleep. 1) I trust her, and thinking rationally she wouldn't cheat on me.... I hope. 2) I don't want to say anything so that she breaks off this friendship with this guy because she doesn't have many friends in Japan. Her japanese not being that great and all. But, I don't know what to do, when I became distant she's like "Don't be jealous" and continued to talk about this guy. I'm not sure if it's me but she fucking talked about how we're SOO similar, and how I'd get along with him. I don't want to be fucking angry and jealous but I can't fucking help it and it undoubtedly effects my conversations with her.