FRK long distance freaky shit v.needsuggestions

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  1. Two toys

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    so I recently met a girl, but we were only together for 3 days before we both went our seperate ways. didnt have sex but it was enough time to figure out we were both freaky and that we get along really well and have a ton in common.

    so lately we've been exchanging freaky texts/emails/phonecalls about all the things we want to do to eachother.

    for example (to get your FS juices flowing) last night she said she wanted me to hang her by her hands from the ceiling and kiss and bite her ass till she was all worked up, then slowly start spanking her picking up intensity and power till she was crying and bleeding then leave her strung up and fuck her as her blood and tears still fell.


    what I'm looking for now are some things I can have her do, she's a sub I'm a dom. I've aready told her she needs to buy a small vibe/dildo and walk around all day with it in then send me her soaked panties for me to cum in and send back.

    i'm having a hard time thinking up activities for her to do, any help would be mucho appreciated.
     
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    tell her to buy a webcam so you can watch her do things that you tell her to do live,
     
  4. Bubba Atlantis

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    Just so you know, people are not ignoring your thread :). Most are probably like myself. They see your thread, want to help/suggest, but are unsure at the moment of what to say
     
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    To me this says shes got a lot of fantasy but not a lot of experience. Are you both relatively new/inexperienced with this? Start slow, talk about what you both think you want, and find out what about this type of play turns you both on. Long distance stuff is hard anyway but no matter the distance you need to know what makes your partner tick. Does she want pain play? Does she want to be controlled? Does she want humiliation? Etc. Find some checklists and fill those out and start from there. Once you have a better idea of what she wants out of it you'll be better able to come up with activities.
     
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    we've already talked about what we are into and what we would be willing and unwilling to do and luckily they are pretty much exactly the same.

    a lot of the stuff will be firsts for both of us on the more extreme side however. I've never had a partner that was so willing, every thing freaky i've done so far has been in the moment kind of things that were repeated a few times but never really explored.

    anyways i guess I can see why whati was asking for isnt really easy to give an answer to.
     
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    Additionally, you might be surprised what sort of freaky stuff she is into. You two have talked about it, but I am sure that both of you have things that you think you might like but feel it might be too 'weird' or the other person might not like it. Thus, you have not shared it.

    Additionally, as you try new things, you will find stuff that you like and dislike. OH!, I have an idea.

    There are a lot of Dom/sub checklists (a good one was posted here a while back). That might be a great place to start. It provides about 5 pages of activities and you check off whether you have done it, thoughts about it, want to try it, never, etc. It might be good for each of you to fill that out and share it with the other person. That will give you an idea of what things you can possibly do. Then, you just start going down the list and trying them.

    The problem with that though is that most will require you to be together; which you have identified as the issue. Depending what kind of relationship you are wanting to have, you can control her from a distance (I don't know how kinky you want to get). You could send her emails, phone her randomly and tell her something that she has to do. For instance, tell her that she has to wear something really revealing and no underwear the next time she goes to get groceries; or something like that.
     
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    actually bubba we have been really honest with eachother, i've told her things I want to do and that I want her to do to me that I normally wouldnt admit to anyone. maybe its that she isnt infront of me and I dont feel vulnerable admitting things but its refreshing to be able to be myself completely with her.

    I like the no underwear idea, those are the kind of things i'm looking for.

    and to dee, thanks that thread was helpful.
     
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    fair enough :) maybe you have been completely forward with one another...that's great :big grin:
     
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    yeah its awesome, I'm really happy with her and being able to be honest with her is a big part of that. unfortunately there are some things that arent allowing us to be public about our relationship and pretty much never will be able to. but oh well, i think the fact that it has to be secret just plays into the fun more.
     
  11. Get Skype...my BF and I :wackit: on there for fun while we're apart.
     
  12. Two toys

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    she doesnt have internet where she lives.....
     
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    go read some sex stories and use those for inspiration ?
     
  14. Two toys

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    its not the sex that I need inspiration on, its activities that I can have her do while i'm not around.


    I just told her she's not allowed to pleasure herself without asking my permission first, she really liked that.
     
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    Maybe get a remote control vib she has to wear at all times or something. She carries the remote in her purse. And at any time during the day/night/whenever, you can text/call and tell her to turn it on, no matter where she is at. :naughty:
     
  16. How do you not have internet...I'd die. lol
     
  17. Two toys

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    i had some of the most productive months of my life in the 4 months i didnt have internet/computer.
     
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    what you've found and its potential to grow sounds awesome :naughty:

    my relationship with my SO was long distance for the first year, and all i can say it that everyone is right when they say communication is the key to anything working. although, we havnt started to fully explore dom/sub play yet, but i see that the thing that will make it work though is that we've already talked about things and set out the boundaries and rules and whatnot

    okay, im rambling. shutting up till i can articulate myself better lol :o
     
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    OH!!!! I have a great one for you. There is a product out (it is around $80) that is tuned into cell phones. IT is a vibe that goes in the underwear that vibrates when a cell phone within a certain range goes off or someone gets a text message. You could use that for some fun. Get it and then have her wear it and randomly text her phone throughout the day.
     
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    damn that sounds awesome. i'll have to look into it, if you can find a link let me know.
     
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    we have talked about it before. Just look up cell phone and sex toy, vibrator, or something like that.

    Actually, I am sure PE will come read this and I remember her posting a link in the past for one.
     
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    http://store.babeland.com/vibrators-bullet-eggs/boditalkescort

    found this, is it what you were talking about? sounds pretty cool.
     
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    yeah, something like that. There are a bunch of them out there with different features. Some I think are attached to one phone, while others are able to be 'turned on' by any phone within a certain range.
     
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    damn you Bubba, I came in here to post about that thing. I guess I was involved in the conversation about that. But yeah, that sounds like an awesome idea.
     
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    Can I get one for you and randomly call you? :mamoru:
     

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