LOL @ First "date" since breakup...

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  1. NiggaPHX420

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    HAY GUISES :hay:

    So let me first say that it feels great to get out there and talk to someone new.

    Now let me say HOLY SHIT WHAT A TRAINWRECK. Met this chick on plentyoffish.com. She actually messaged ME (first bad sign? lol...) and we hit it off pretty quick. She had several pics on the site, looked pretty cute, but was obviously a bigger girl. Im OK with that, as Im a big guy - 6'4", 320.

    Again, I have NO OBJECTION to bigger/thicker chicks. I like meat on the bones anyway. Not even really that attracted to skinny chicks. Ok well we end up texting a lot of over a couple days and finally meet up last night at Desert Ridge, an outdoor mall type place here in Phoenix. Lots of bars and coffee shops and stuff.

    Well she suggested meeting at starbucks just to kick it, so thats fine. I get to our meeting spot (right by starbucks), and she already had killed a starbucks drink. I was 5 minutes late. :rofl:

    Anyways, she ended up being about 5'6'', high 200 pound range :eek4: I was very nice, friendly, and proceeded as if I was not bothered. We kicked it for about an hour and half, laughed a lot and had a good time.

    Well, I dont plan on making a relationship attempt out of this, but hey I had fun and maybe I can get something dirty out of it? :dunno: :naughty:


    K well thats that :o
     
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    Doesn't sound like that much of a train wreck to me. The only issue was you were't attracted to her correct?

    This is common with internet dating.
     
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    good for you.

    Can't expect to have every date/meeting go off fabulously. I'm on a bad stretch right now..most of the women I have met have been nice, but no chemistry.

    But hey, that's how it goes. Gotta stay enthusiastic, gotta keep meeting people.
     
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    meh, the more dating experience the better/more comfortable you'll be at it.
     
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    Yup thats how Im lookin at it. She was cool, just not a keeper :o
     
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    Yeah I guess it wasnt so bad. Got experience in chit-chatting with new people, Ill take it.
     
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    So she's 5'6" 299 lbs?
     
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    high 200 lb.? is that like no gym
     
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    :rofl: Id say thats a reasonable guess
     
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    no gym for home, work, or anywhere else for that matter :eek5:


    P.S. she hit me with the "thyroid problems" bullshit :bowrofl:

    this shit is done. As a fatty who has USED the thyroid problems bullshit line in middle school, thats such a fucking loan. Thyroid issues can be addressed with medication.
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    :dunno: Seem elike it's a good experience, nothing terrible, you just aren't attracted. keep on truckin!
     
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    yup. I was just shocked I guess :o
     
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    at least you are out there and experiencing new people...it took me 5 months to do that...
     
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    :werd: thats what Im trying to do.

    Im fucking AMAZING when Im around people I know and am comfortable with. Im always teh life of the party, making people smile and comfortable, etc.

    Now Im trying to break out of my shell. Ive never been good at warming up to NEW people.

    I talk to random people when I go out by myself :o
     
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    Sounds to me like a pretty decent first date out of an LTR. You were not attracted to her, but you got to meet someone new, got some practice for talking to new girls, and got that first date out of the way.

    Now it's time to look for the next one, and hopefully somewhere down the line soon you will meet a girl worth a second date :bigthumb:
     
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    :x: :x: :x: :x: :x:
     
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    Damn guises,

    she keeps fucking texting me trying to set up another date :hs:

    How do I let this one down gently? Being a sensitive guy and a chubber myself, I wouldnt wanna hear "zomg we just dont click lol bi"
     
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    I must assume that you told her about her being the first date after a LTR break-up. IF you did then just tell her that you realized that you aren't ready to start seeing someone consistently yet. She will either back off out of respect and you gain a friend or she will take it as a dismissal and leave you alone. win-win scenario.
     
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    :werd: thats what I was leaning towards.

    I actually didnt tell her it was my first time out since LTR, but I did mention my ex jokingly
     

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