Logic Vs Emotions

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  1. Ticka-T

    Ticka-T New Member

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    Hi, i've never posted in here before, and the only reason i am is cos there some shit i wanna get off my chest and i know if i did it in the main forum i'd be told to come here. So i did.

    Anyway, there's a chick at my work (I started working there in may) and I have been getting closer and closer to her over time. Trouble is, she has a BF :wtc: yeah i know i've been friendzoned hardcore. My logic says just get over it, it aint gonna happen :wtc: but my emotions are all like :x: if i just hold out etcetera etcetera yeah i know its shit. I'm trying to listen to my logic cos i know its right but my emotions are little spoiled children who just won't listen

    anyway that's pretty much it, thanks to anyone who bothers reading this
     
  2. Viper

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    So stick it out longer.

    You'll eventually get so disgusted with the situation that the pain of walking away will be easier than the anguish of trying to stick it out.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I think logic > emotions in your situation.
     
  4. Man Bear Pig

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    Man up and move on, unless you enjoy wallowing in self pity.
     
  5. Ticka-T

    Ticka-T New Member

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    I know and agree

    it's just shit, that's all. Maybe i will never find the awesome chick of my dreams, just end up with some average bitch
     
  6. Falconer

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    Don't waste your time on a chick with a bf.
     
  7. Falconer

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    btw, logic > emotions is the correct course of action 99.9% of the time.
     
  8. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    I promise I won't tell Aussie crew.

    I think most of us have been there before. Just walk away. It's not worth the heartbreak.
     
  9. Man Bear Pig

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    You've put her on a pedestal because you cannot have her. You could always tell her, and who knows what could happen. But, the best course of action: don't pine away like an emo bitch and explore the world.
     
  10. dan7532

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    OP must be lonely.
     
  11. MattThom01

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    spot on.

    It sucks, but it's true.
     
  12. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    read abomb's story in another thread about that girl who turned out to be a slut with flaky skin and huge bush.

    cliffs: FORGET ABOUT HER!
     
  13. vodkacollins

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    she has a bf. dont waste your time

    nothing wrong with staying friends with her. she may eventually break up with her bf and then maybe you would have a chance. but for now, dont waste your time or energy

    logic wins
     
  14. NuShooz

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    well i was friends with this girl for about a year. Helped her with her relationship problems and what not...basically just as a friend. She ended up breaking up with him and a few months later we got together. Later on I found out she was pretty psycho and I should have just left it as friends. We're broken up now.

    Dunno if this helps or not
     
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    As trite as it sounds, there's a lot of fish in the sea. Don't be so quick to place her on the pedestal as the only worthy woman for you.
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    It should. Everyone looks fantastic when you aren't really with them and are pining for what you think they are.
     
  17. chica&buddies

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  18. Priddo

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    Logic is always what you need to follow, even though you'll almost never want to.
     
  19. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    so "logic" = doing the hard, right thing

    lol @ what we're calling "logic" in this thread
     
  20. Bush77

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    If you let your emotions control your actions you'll prolly look back one day (soon) and think ":ugh::ugh: wtf was i thinking"
     
  21. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    it's a bogus dichotomy. it's not emotions vs. logic. they're the same thing.

    all that "logic" means is "emotions protected by foresight."

    every example where someone says they used logic rather than emotions actually just means they used logic in order to better protect emotions.

    e.g., "she was really hot but i didn't have a condom. i followed my logic instead of emotions and didn't fuck her."

    but really, all that means is he followed his emotions........ with foresight.

    he knew that, NET, in SUM, his emotions would be put at greater risk by fucking without a condom (because of the potential for babies/AIDS) than if he abstained from sex.

    emotional impact of having a baby and/or getting an STD, long-term > emotional impact of an orgasm, short-term.

    in contrast:

    last night, i was lying in bed with my lover. emotionally, i wanted to go down on her. logically, i wanted to go down on here. i went down on her. did i do the logical thing or the emotional thing?????? omgz :noes:

    kind of a dumb thread ya know? so vague. sometimes logic and impulse are the same, sometimes they're different, and ALL times it's about emotion (whether immediate or long-term).
     
  22. BATMANs

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    after an ex cheated on me with 2 married guy, her ex and a new BF in the same week and told me that her reason for doing it was because, "she is a woman and are entitled to do what they feel" I started to have a very low tolerance for gals that let their emotions govern them instead of the other way around. Thanks to their hormones and how their brains are wired it's most women.

    If God didn't curse my never ending thrist for vaginas, I would be chilling with the guys.........
     
  23. GammaRadiation

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    The seed is set. Distance yourself from this chick until she is single. Then step back in after a decent grievance period. Hell, let her do a rebound boy toy or two. In the mean time fuck bitches and get money cus bitches aint shit but tricks and hos.
     

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